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I am not spinning anything. When you send a response to someone after they have treated you like dirt and told you they want nothing to do with you, the message isn’t the actual content...it’s the message itself. Any reply is validation. Simply saying “ok” is nothing more than a feeble attempt...

You do realize the irony of calling other men who disagree with you butthurt? I hope this level of communication doesn’t find its way into your dating life

He gained no points. Completely justified her decision with a lame ass response to her breakup. There’s nothing butthurt about not responding to someone who shows you such littler respect that they decided to break off a long term relationship over text. Absolutely NOTHING butthurt about just...

I’d be down man but I’m a bit farther south these days. When I come back up that way I’ll hit you up.

Now THAT is something I am on board with

Not drinking I get. Unfortunately it is a vice of mine, and it’s a typical thing I do. I don’t want to out where you live, but the baseball team I’m sure you go to see isn’t any more exciting than the local pub on karaoke night. Unless you head about an hour south, then you can see some real...

Also you guys are her arguing semantics. If a girl is into you enough it won’t matter what you say. You could say the earth is turpentine toothpaste and she’d be like “yea I totally get what you mean lol let’s hang out.” I’d never say something like “do you like to kiss” but it works if she’s...

Here’s the thing. I don’t ever, and I mean EVER spend 130 on a first date. Hell, even a 3rd or 4th date. It’s not because I can’t, it’s not because I’m unwilling...it’s because I don’t know if I like HER enough to do that type of investment. That’s the winning mentality. SHE has to prove to ME...

Men and women are not the same. Obviously a rational person can make that choice. But Women who only hang out with other men have been ostracized by their own. Women are inherently socialist. Not like politically, and maybe there’s a better word. But they need their tribe of women to gossip and...

Immediate demotion to plate. If you can’t do that or don’t want to, then you dismiss. Women aren’t stupid, they know when they’ve done something to damage the relationship. And if you allow her to get away with it or become passive aggressive in your response, everyone loses respect for you...

I’ve slept with many “taken” women and it pretty much all starts out with “it’s no big deal” small talk. There are two criteria that go into a woman having sex with a man. 1.) attraction and 2.) availability. Attraction is black or white, does she get a tingle when you are around. Availability...

I know work has just been crazy. One of these days... but what I mean is I don’t think any geographical location can change a females trie nature. I understand some places have group think issues and such, but if you can isolate her she will revert. That’s my guess, I’ll test my theories...

I will come to sf and clean up

IMO I think there’s too much text exchange. The idea is right, but my personal opinion is as soon as a woman starts changing venues or times - the very instant - I disappear. No need for small talk, id just say something like “I’m too busy with work for a lunch. Take care.” And then never...

I have the complete opposite experience

Your trolling is reaching new levels.

Correct. You suggested an open relationship now you must live in one or break free. The terms are now different whether you want them to be or not. Any woman who openly, in the face of her man, chats with other men and lies about it, is not relationship material.

The concept of nice guy is actually incongruence. Nice guys are acting disingenuously because they believe their niceness will get them what they want. Women especially but even a man can sense another “nice guy” from miles away.

The “idea”...and I learned this a long time ago...is to have those short term relationships. That’s the norm. The paradox of choice has ruined functional long term relationships. Women with options (7s, 8s, 9s....you know the women that us men desire) are too fleeting. Become as high value as...

She didn’t prove to be low quality. She stated she wants something, you can’t give it to her, so you both need to move on. Generally I’d say since you are seeing other girls and it’s a long distance thing just fvck with each other when you are within close proximity. But you caught feelings and...