ive been in similar situations before. This WILL work if she really is interested in you. next time your tutoring her (preferably on a thurs or fri) tell her that one of your friends is having a house party and its going to be really fun. "it would be a perfect way for you to get over your ex...
update.... so she texted me last nite telling me how cute my nephew is. i texted her tonite saying we should go out. she said she had plans but we should hook up later tonite. i said cool, ill call her when i get out of the bars..... here we are after the bars, i texted her said im on my way...
dam, now you guys got me worried that all she would want is a bootycall. i agree thats the mindset i must have to protect myself but do any of you have any advice how to keep it from becoming just a booty call? i was contemplating asking her to come out this friday nite with me and my friends...
update. went to a bar last nite. had a really hot chick all over me. ex shows up. sees me dancing with the girl the whole time. they leave. i met up with my friends at this pizza place and shes there with her sis. we talk and joke a lil bit. 30 min later she bootycalls me with a text. i go...
update:
so really weird. i was set on going out and texting her at 1245ish with the booty call text. but here is what happend. early in the nite i went to one bar in one city. i got a text from a girl i use to bang (but the ex thought we were just friends) and she said she just saw her at the...
i really dont think ive acted like a *****. yes ive vented out to everyone here so my inner game might not be as well, however, for all she knows is nothing. facts are: she called me late night and came over at 2am. she vented out all her memories on me while i played it cool. i textd her two...
i appreciate everyones help and with that said ive already made the personal decision to go thru with my plan. as afc or non alpha as it is i will learn the hard way and im willing to face the consequences. this friday nite im going to send a text midnite ish and say " we have some unfinished...
so mr.me,
assuming i continue to do my idea of sending a text friday nite' do u have another idea of getting the message out witout putting the ball in her court. im not saying im going to do this just want to weigh my options. i dont think she wil initiate a bootycall since i rejected her...
ive decided to play it cool till friday and then send a text near midnite (when i know she will have a few drinks in her ) and say " suprised you didnt follow me around this week. where did you go?" (for the past 3 weekends we ran into each other at the same bars). when she responds saying...
in all honesty buddy i really dont think its you. i consider myself a 9 and what ive learned is that hot girls do find good looking guys intimidating. even if you approach them it still doesnt work. i think hot girls respond better to the "seth rogan" type. the guy thats goofy. i suggest...
the reason i feel to reconnect is because our relationship was a good relationship. We got a long great and things were great in almost every aspect. we did have the bestfriends mentality when we were together. now why did we break up? ill get more indepth. im 28 underachiever who didnt...
i really like this. it makes a lot of sense to me. i will no longer have that talk.
do you guys all suggest no contact untill she makes first move, or would it be non needy to call in a couple days to see whats up for the weekend?
Make it perfectly clear you guys can be together, but you're already seeing other people and are at a place in life that you're not ready to leave. If she accepts that frame, then you're good to go. If not, then you're no worse off than you are already.
i really like this, but how do you...
age is updated.
i like what you all had to say. I MUST NOT GET NEEDY. i have to realize i regained the power when i did not have sex. my main thing is i want to really see what her intentions are. i figured a way i can ask is to say this:
what are your intentions? if you are trying to be...
update.
i decided i wanted to talk to her and see what her intentions are. i sent her a text yesterday around 3 and said lets do something tonite after ur family dinner. she waited 10min and put what do u have in mind. i responded with "u,me, restaurant, dinner at 8". she waited 10min again...
thanks guys for the advice. everything you all said made good advice. Truth is i have been thinking about this girl past 4 months so i have invested that already. i think the right thing to do is have sex if the opportunity comes again not invest anymore feelings into her. keep myself...
so an old ltr is back. we broke up 4 months ago and did the whole no contact for the most part. 3 weeks ago she told my sis that shes having feelings for me and having sexual dreams about me. ive been thinkn bout her too. we had a great relationship and she cut it off cuz i wasnt driven in life...
i understand everything your saying. makes sense.
the reason i texted her was to cover myself. i texted do you have plans friday. if she said yes i was not going to respond. i was planning on calling after i found out what she says.
i think in regards of going out in group or one on one i...
hey guys. ive been a long time member just never posted. i need some quick advice.
a girl i use to date for a long time might be back in the picture. heard she broke up with her bf and now shes been asking about me. weve ran into each other at bars the past two weeks and weve had small...
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