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Give it time. Wheat and chaff take some time separating. The thugs may look like they're doing well now. I hired an impeccably educated African-American guy (Swathmore BS/Stanford MBA) born to one of DC's worst neighborhoods when I worked at a big NYC bank. He was having some of the same issues...

At least go look. I think it's free. I get the North Dakota thing. Online dating pools are definitely going to be leaner in places with a lot less people around. Not for nothing, I was in the military for six years 'back in the day' and overseas a lot. For whatever reason, I couldn't get my...

I know that 'Tenacity' deals with some of the same issues. And I've gotta say that I have no idea how to help with your kind of stuff. I was out of the dating pool for over 25 years and not into women significantly younger than me (though they seem interested enough in me for some reason). I...

If all he's doing with her is shtupping three times a week, she will get bored. Are they going out and having fun? Or is he just finding anytime anyplace he can to nail her? Sounds like he's trying to make up for a dry spell or was a virgin and now on a binge. Just tell him to make sure he...

Go 'fix' your match.com profile. Then, if you hear from her, tell her the truth. What does understating your age accomplish anyway?

I get occasionally wondering about your looks or whatever. And I don't think anyone here has ever seen your photograph. I also doubt that you look like Quasimodo, the Elephant Man or even the 270 pound beer gut guy you described above. What brought this on besides the dry spell you're in...

That is smooth(ie).

^^^^ This. Unnecessary and counter-productive. You sound all butt hurt when you do stuff like this. Just move on without a word.

If you're going to do this, make very sure that no one, grown up or child can try to see what it's like to close the door while they're inside. It's a one-way thing. People can be remarkably stupid and children are curious.

I gotta agree. Maybe it's because what we do here is reduced to text. But so much of this sounds like over-planned tactics that it comes off as mechanical and clumsy

Huge? Hardly.

Wait for a while.

Women are not your therapist.

It can be a bad stretch and it will pass. While there's no point in typing a text wall here to see if you're the common denominator, how you are 'showing up' may explain some of the flakes. Rejection just happens. You can't be meeting new women if you're not able to handle rejection.

Yawn. She wasn't rude. She was direct. You always such a delicate flower or just like pretending to be a tough guy?

You misread her interest. She didn't waste any time telling you she wasn't interested and she was direct. She is not a ***** (bytch). No, there is no recovery. Your interest in her is your issue not hers. Some women will like you or be interested enough in you to see where things go. Most...

Yes it was.

Prejudice based upon race. Simple enough for you? Like you ascribing to 'white people' using the actions of an individual to everyone in whatever bullsh*t group you choose to put them in.

Like I said, explaining anything to a hive mind, mouth breathing racist is futile.

Ascribing the actions of an individual to all is the definition of prejudice. How many white people killed MLK? Explaining anything to a mouth-breathing racist is futile.