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  1. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Not sure if she's ready for me to come over just yet..

    Hey dudes. I've gone out with this woman a few times, so far just dates that are out and about and neither at our respective places. We both have roommates which can be a factor potentially in spending the night together. We're trying to make plans for tomorrow and I suggested we eat some...
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    The one who gutted me after my marriage ended. LONG POST.

    Hey brothers, I've been reticent to post this here because I guess it's a massive acknowledgment of what I consider to be the last major blue pill heartbreak of my life. And I know we're supposed to all be tough and strong or at least working towards that and I'm getting there but it's been a...
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    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    I basically followed this to a tee and it was a great night. We didn't hook up but there was a lot of making out and the sexual tension is pretty high. She's entering into her 30s so she's at that phase of trying to pump the brakes a little bit I think. That's fine, we hung out, drank some beers...
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    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    To be a "nice guy." But maybe also to try and buffer myself against rejection. I'm really trying to be aware of old blue pill and impulses.
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    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    No nothing like that. We worked together several years ago and recently got back in touch. Like I messaged her to say hi and ask her if she wanted to get a drink.
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    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    There was when we hung out the other night.
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    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    I suspect this is just old blue pill conditioning kicking in but I have a second date tonight with woman that I've known for a while. We got together for a drink the other night and ended up kissing but nothing else happened. We're hanging out again tonight and I'm wondering if I should be clear...
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    Got a rejection, but relieved

    Absolutely. And to her credit she was very blunt with me that it was a turn off. But I also wonder if I was sort of self-sabotaging.
  9. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Got a rejection, but relieved

    I am very new to the game as some of you might have gathered so far from my posts so really I'm at the learning experience stage and just being patient. So I got a phone number from this woman last week but straight away I could tell that we weren't really a great match and she had low...
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    Premium OLD Subscriptions Worth It?

    Do you subscribe to any of the OLD services? Worth it?
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    Does you OLD profile have professional photos?

    Word. Did you have a friend take some pictures of you or did you just put up some selfies?
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    Does you OLD profile have professional photos?

    Just wondering how many of you got professional photos done and how many of you just did your own photos and what your strategy was.
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    Advice on my first potential plate

    Through work several years ago. She hasn't worked for the company in a while but came into my location as a customer the other day and we got to talking and when she discovered I was single it escalated from there and she gave me her number.
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    Advice on my first potential plate

    Good morning gentlemen, I'm in my mid-40s and new to the game so I'm going slow and could use some advice. I currently do not have any other plates spinning but she does not know that. I asked her out last night but she had to work early this morning and declined. I had plans tonight but those...
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