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Update So last Friday this happened So she texted me seeing if I wanted to go on a walk as it was sunny ... I agreed and picked her up ... we went to a local spot where’s there’s a waterfall and a small hike ... to cut a long story short we got to the waterfall ... and then she was like...

You guys were right ... I noticed last night that she’s changed her relationship info on social media ... not to in a relationship or anything but before you could see she was single now you can’t ... so I think she’s seeing someone. Time to move on too the next :-(

The inner beta always trying to break out ... for example ... Girl texts asking if I wanted to do something later .. but it’s something I really don’t feel like doing so I say I’ll pass ... she replies ‘ ok no worries ‘ And this is when I feel the inner beta tries to break out ... I start...

Decided to message her and ask if she wanted to go get a drink ... her response was ‘ I can’t today, but what you up to tomorrow?’ I just said ‘Okay! Not sure yet will let you know’ Now the way I see it is that I asked her out ... she declined, but made a counter offer I’m literally at...

Yeah I’m just trying not to come across too pushy ... because I’m trying to dig myself out the friend zone it’s harder than just meeting someone and escalating I do think I’ve made some headway .. just need her to give clearer signals if that’s the case .... probably fu**ed it now but deffo...

Yeah possibly .. I just see mixed signals. I bet there’s easier safes to crack ha ha

Time to cut the cords on this now I think ... Met up tonight ... she was dressed to impress for sure .... tight pants and crop top etc ... kept catching her looking at me out the corner of my eye ... but she kept saying stupid stuff like ‘ This is why I can’t get a bf ‘ I can’t even remember...

Great explanation! Makes total sense when you put it like that.

What about coming across as butthurt ?

Cheers bro, when I first met we were kind of seeing each other ... I didn’t but get sex but got the next best thing ... after that things just fizzled out .. a few months later she reached out and have kinda been friends since .... I’m pretty much done now being her beta! Just going too back...

Yep finally seeing this for what it is now ... I wish I’d opened my eyes earlier lol All that time wasted ... Worst thing is looks wise she’s a 6/10 ... I think I liked her more because of all the stuff we did together etc ... I’m just gonna focus on me again now ... gym, tanning, nice...

Great post brother! Great advice - this girl has just texted me again ... asking if I want to go somewhere and do something this week ... I replied by saying I will let her know as I might have plans ... she said cool and that she’s busy tomorrow but free on thurs/fri I’m just going to do what...

She texted me before asking if I want to do something I just replied that I had other plans this afternoon and that we’d speak soon Her response to that was ‘ yeah sure... hope you have a good day ‘ And that was 20 mins ago ... didn’t reply Ahh well next ....

Great advice bro I really appreciate it ... makes perfect sense what you have just said ... I think I just need to move on and learn from this ... just annoyed I missed my opportunity Live and learn Thanks man

last week I created a thread explaining my current situation with my long term friend who I recently got he hots for ... Now there was some solid advice. But since I posted that thread ... I can now see how I have been her orbiter ... she loves it aswel, it’s like what ever your mind is saying...

I keep trying to stop but it’s so hard ... I stopped for 2 months last November but thought I could use in moderation again ... unfortunately that’s not the case!

Yeah I nearly made a move too ha ha .... but she’s still game for it which makes me think she’s still interested .... it’s a bunch of mixed signals.

She came for a drive out on Saturday, we stopped at a nice village, we got food and made our way round a few pubs etc ... she was being quite touchy feely, and she kept mentioning that we should get a hotel to which I tried but all were fully booked :-( that would of been my moment right there...

So is weed a game killer ?

Th Alan for the advice guys ... I know the chances are slim but I’ve got nothing to lose except the friendship in which case would probably end even if I don’t try my luck. There are lots of reasons why I think she likes me but again could be purely on a friend basis. All I can do is ask and...