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3. Get a better social life, I have crappy people who don't invite me out to anything or willing to meet up when I organize. _______________________________________________________________ That right there is the current bane of my existance. On the thread about going to bars/clubs alone I...

Umm what are you saying, we should act all insecure?

out of interest San jose, how much success do you enjoy with the girls?

ughh 6 and 8 would be the worst on there for me. 6 would be the worst, if its just the three of you and the other 2 are a couple, that would feel like being babysat, no thanks

You seem to be the only one who thinks so Jose. Surprising though, I would have though it was way more. If people are telling the truth, thats good for me lol, I also didn't think this thread would take off so well

Do you get more success in the middle of the day or at night?

Other than "HI" how do you start the conversation, and when you do use "HI........" what do you follow up the high with? If you ca remember any examples of openers that worked well that would be great

From what I have read it seems like the less messages before meeting up the better your chances are. Seems like, the more messages have been sent the more desperate you look, the less mystery remains and it looks like you have no options left. whereas if there are few it seems to make you look...

thx for all the replies guys some interesting answers here, these 2 threads of mine (along with the going to a bar alone one) have got more replies than I expected.

This is after 2nd date but me and my old girlfriend used to go to a local arcade and just mess around on the games there. Bearing in mind we were both 17 at the time though. We'd start with bowling, then we'd do quasar, then move on to the games that didn't need booking in advance, pool, air...

I'm no expert but it seems like you have displayed you have no other options except her.

How could dating someone be considered afc, If all this is true I certainly don't consider him afc

For the slightly older members, whats been the age so far when you have had the easiest time of it with the so called fairer sex? Was it you teens, 20's or 30+. I'd imagine being 30+ all the additional life experience must help a lot. If you are 30+ would you say you could pull a 20 yr old...

Thanks, I've read the intro and first week part and it sounds really good. Although I've read many theories, techniques and systems that haven't worked but I'll give this a go. I was trying the eye contact/hi'ing thing earlier but not a single person would make eye contact lol. Still, will go...

You just perfectly described how scared I was the first time I applied for a job and the first time I went clubbing. which are both as natural as breathing now. I hope it applies to this as well the nerves are very much there, I guess I just need to take the plunge and get a few rejections...

If I came out with that line it would for all the world sound like an excuse for not having the skills

Though if you can't get a girl, your self worth drops

Though if you can't get a girl, your self worth drops

I would think afc post of the month would go to one of my threads asking how to get a girlfriend haha

Well I may be afc most of the time but its good to know at least I'm not afc when I'm in a relationship :)