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I'm starting to realize this to an extent. My best approaches have come when I was in a non-chalant manner going about my business and I just happen to see a hottie and I approach. Chasing them down during daygame sessions just increases the likelihood of coming across as thirsty, desperate...

Some almost instadates in there as well. IDK I think I'm pretty good on all of that stuff. Could be location. I'm in a very heavily daygamed area and maybe chicks are getting approached a lot. Not really too sure. Agree though, something has to change. And yeah, regarding insta, starting...

Don't really know why people are commenting on me having AA. Its not really a problem for me at this point. I've probably done about 100 approaches.

She would absolutely deserve a thrashing from Kevin Samuels.

That's fair. Its just that some of these chicks aren't that hot and I kind of feel like I'm doing that a favor by approaching them. I also feel a bit silly blowing these chicks' egos up by giving them free attention and validation. But you're right they don't really owe me anything, but I...

So a wing and I decided to go on an epic daygame marathon on Sunday. We got started at 11 and went all the way until about 7. Totally exhausting and probably too much, but about an hour after I had lunch at around 2 I caught a second wind and refused to leave until I had a few solid...

I agree. The tip on inviting silence during a conversation is something that is relevant to me. I've noticed constantly talking is just exhausting for both parties, and its something that I feel like dating coaches don't talk about enough. Silence can often times be golden, as the old saying...

Fair enough. My conversation skills are solid, I think in this particular scenario it was the girl who sucked at conversation, she also didn't speak very much English so there's that. Nevertheless, my point still remains that you don't want to do too much driving with a girl you don't know...

This is a good point. I wanted to eject on my most recent date, but it was difficult to do so because I drove somewhat of a distance. Ended up having a fairly unpleasant experience.

Just don't do too much driving, I recently had a date where I drove a lot and I think it killed attraction. Also make sure you have the right jams set up on Spotify from the get-go, otherwise listening to some whack **** will kill the vibe.

I've honestly just been making it a point to say "Hi" to people lately. Or initiating a basic social interaction such as saying "Have a nice day" to a clerk rather than letting them be the first to say it to me. Like you, I tend keep my head down and handle my business. I'm usually pretty...

Right. I think being clear with my intentions is definitely something I lack with women, but I may have been overcorrecting and have been displaying a vibe that is too intense or perhaps too overtly sexual. I've heard other say that the proper frame of mind is something that goes like "yeah...

When doing cold approach is it ideal to emit a chill, non-chalant vibe? I've heard some people say that you should imagine yourself ****ing the girl you're talking to so that when you walk up to a girl you would have a very sexual vibe emitting from you that she would pick up on and therefore...

Quality problem to have, dude. I have resorted to filters and apps to make me look better. I doubt you're "too" good looking though. I created a fake profile with a pro model, and 5-6's were delusional enough to think they had a shot at the guy. He was absolutely inundated with girls...

As Jimwho mentioned above, would you recommend opening with a compliment? For example saying "Hi, I think you're attractive" is definitely expressive, but I feel awkward being that forward and honest. I know London Daygame Model recommends this type of opener, but I find it a bit overwhelming...

Interesting, I like it! That definitely takes a lot of the pressure out of the interaction. I realize now that in my head I wanted to start off the conversation with a sexual tone, but that probably would overwhelm the girl and completely hit her out of left field. She probably wouldn't...

Agreed. Yes I do most of the auxiliary things to make myself more attractive. Lift, eat healthy, skincare, etc. Working on some certifications to enhance my professional life, although I do get a little lazy from time to time, hah. However, I still feel a step-by-step approach is the move...

That's pretty much what I'm doing right now. Surveying environment and getting a feel for when a good time to approach would be and thinking of things to say. I'm pretty sure at some point I'm going to get the hang of this. I'm pretty intent on getting this part of my life sorted out. I've...

Yes, absolutely. I think it goes all the way back to even Mystery Method to some degree. PUA's would often say to hide your intent, as showing intent is needy, beta, low-value and/or supplicative behavior. This type of advice wasn't useful for people like me, who were the sexually repressed...

For most of my life when I would see a hottie I would simply ignore her, and act as if I had no desire to interact with her. I would repress any notion of approaching and would actively avoid coming into close contact with her. Lately I've simply been entertaining the notion of approaching...