Nice one Sarge. You live in Calgary right? I heard It’s been hot there already. I live in a much much smaller Canadian city and I’ve only ever experienced an immediate night hookup like that once from an app.
When she asked you if you were a serial killer, I would have said “I used to be but...
I agree with this. Us guys are so afraid to show TOO MUCH interest that we often don’t show ENOUGH.
Women are turned on by a guy who isn’t afraid to go after what he wants, who will risk rejection.
Thing is, it’s not needy if she’s responding within a reasonable time frame and putting in more effort than you are. If it’s taking her hours/days to give one word replies and she never initiates, THEN you’re being needy. Worrying about being needy is kind of needy in itself.
I’m learning...
Thing is you need to give them at least a little bit of attention. It’s kind of like giving a child a treat now and then instead of tossing the whole bag of candy at them. She’ll think you’re not interested if you don’t text now and then.
It’s like if you keep hitting on a woman but she...
Great question. If she was that bothered by it, that’s a good sign she’s into you. Women are communication FREAKS and it drives them nuts when you don’t text them enough. Which often has a positive effect. I’ve had some women who were bothered by it ask me “are you just not much of a texter?”...
Only about a year…after spending my life so far being absolutely clueless about women I’m finally learning something :lol:
It’s hard to unlearn all the Hollywood/Disney/modern day simpery I’ve been exposed to all that time!
I don’t think you set up too far in advance. IMO you should do and say nothing until the actual date. If one flakes, she wasn’t really that interested in you anyway.
Dude. If it takes her 2.5 days to reply, your date offer is off the table. In this case when she says tomorrow or Thursday, you say you’ve already made plans and then leave it at that. Go silent until until she shows signs of interest.
I used to do what you did and in hindsight it’s...
Ah yes, I thought what you linked to might be the case. This would make a lot of sense. Shortly before she “dumped” me, she complained that she doesn’t see me enough and joked about becoming my secretary or some sh!t. And she said that when we first met, her first priority was getting fvcked...
Basically we had agreed to meet up and fvck when we had the time. I was never under the impression that we were exclusive or anything. But given her high interest behaviour all along I was surprised by how it ended.
But no doubt she didn’t feel the strong emotional connection because of a) the...
We could make the logistics work if we really wanted to. I don’t see a future with her because if she was shopping for my replacement before, what would change the second time around?
This thread has made me realize it’s probably over for good, which I’m truthfully okay with.
I do agree with this, however my kitchen is stored in her garage. She’s been kind enough to store it for many months. So I wasn’t going to be a d!ck about it. But once I move my kitchen in a few weeks I’m gonna delete her number. Onto other things
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