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I'm not sure, but I suppose it depends on the chick. It used to be that you would ask out a woman, she would say yes, you would hit it off, you'd ask her out again, she would say yes... then this kept going until she started reaching out to you first. This is what was normal. You expressed...

Tall redheads. Also, having a hair trigger. Success with women is hitting the right balance between too much and too little effort. I don't think at this point in my life I'm going to be able to do anything about it, but I hold back too much this worked out REALLY well in the 80s and 90s when...

Offering a chick a lift home is a simp move. She can get her own @ss back and forth to the gym. Classic 'nice guy' behavior. A 15 minute bus ride is nothing he isn't offering anything of real value. Having said that he didn't do anything wrong, it was only stupid. Let me tell you what goes...

I agree. What I am suggesting is the 'kindness' does not hurt you. Really having a pleasant kind respectful demeanor is actually leading by example, women will mirror your behavior if they like you. Without actually setting boundaries, your behavior dictates how you expect her to behave...

Exactly. I am ALWAYS kind and respectful of women, and this has served me well for over 30 years. What I am not is a push-over. I do not let people take advantage of me, and I do not spend time with people who are disrespectful. I am kind and respectful, and I expect reciprocation. If I...

I'm not going to tell you what to do, do what you want, but understand the ramifications. Understand, depending on where you live, when you live together it becomes a defacto marriage.... Meaning the government is now part of your love life. However, in your case, since she makes more than you...

For the last 18 months I've been working twice as hard for 65% of what I was earning before. Dating has taking an back seat to making money. This is my new reality. I've lost 35% of my revenue, so I've had to lower my spending by 35%, most of that is dating not only because of cost, but...

Covid makes starting up conversations with women much harder. Human beings rely heavily on facial expressions to read subconscious sub-text. Women can decide in a matter of seconds if you have a shot. A BIG part of this is what your mouth and teeth look like.... this is covered up, so she has...

Women are really good at checking you out without you knowing. Honestly IMO it is a waste of time trying to figure that out. They are not like men, they can just get a glance of you and that is all they need to make a decision about you. They really aren't like dudes that will keep stealing...

The FIRST sign things are going sideways is when you girl starts b1tching about the small stuff. The SECOND sign that things are headed in the wrong direction is the sex starts getting stale. Things like she need lube to get things going (unless of course she is an older women where lube is...

You can talk about work... but stay positive about it. If you love your job, GREAT! Talk about it. But if you hate your job, it's better to talk about your hobbies and interests you like. As far as trying to 'steer' the conversation towards sex... Well, On a first date.... I wouldn't...

I would need to see the woman's body language during the date to tell. You can't make anything to happen with any woman if she isn't open to you. If she isn't open to you (interested at some level) NOTHING you do will make any difference. Trying to create sexual tension with women that are...

Spot on 100% correct. I've been practicing yoga for 6 years now. Absolutely love it. I do not go to pick up women, but there are women there to meet and I've meet and dated quite a few at class. But do not expect to just walk in and do this. You have to be a regular and a familiar face...

I've watched several male directed relationship coaches... MOST of them will admit that getting a chick back is really difficult. They all spend time interviewing each other... and one that I saw, I'm guessing was about 5 years ago... I don't remember who was interviewing whom, but the...

Be yourself and let women figure it out... because that is what is going to happen anyway. Understand that MOST women are not going to be attracted to you if this is your truth. Don't lie about it. If you are not interested in a relationship, just don't say that you are.... you are not going...

Nothing wrong with Cory Wayne except to me, he's boring.... and he talks too much, rambles on and doesn't get to the point. But again, that's me. I don't think there is anything wrong with his advice if you are a man that wants to get into a 'relationship'. Really the only thing I disagree...

The good news is now maybe these women will actually go back to work and we'll have waitresses in restaurants again.

Lack of reciprocity. When you get the first whiff that you are having to do more work to keep things going then she is, walk away. It's like the old adage of the frog boiling in water as the het is slowly turned up. I've seen so many relationships where the man is is just a beaten down dog...

We all have more of these then we would like. The more you try, the more it happens. You can not let it bother you.... just pretend she just came out and told you she isn't interested... because really that is what she is saying. It's better to learn this sooner rather than later. Some...

I think most women are at least a little attracted to other women, it's always been that way. You see it more today because it's more socially acceptable. it isn't unusual to see a couple of young women who are friends cuddling under a blanket watching TV. You would never see a couple of...