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The ony real difference between Brits and Yanks is our form of government. My ex is British (she becomes a US citizen next year), both my kids have duel citizenship (UK and US). Their bedroom is filled with pitches of the Queen, and various Princes and Princesses that quite frankly I could not...

While I agree, it is too simplistic to just say this is all the fault of media and culture. As an engineer I always look to root causes of problems, then evaluate if the root causes can be addressed without creating un-intended side effects. Why are we here and how did we get here? We...

It's actually easy. (1) Listen to what people are saying. (2) Don't interrupt people, let them complete their thoughts. (2) Respond to what they are saying. (3) Ask clarifying questions. (4) Don't worry about what you are going to say, or if the conversion goes in a different direction. Just go...

The American Revolution was one of the most 'British" things we did. Britain has a long history of fighting among themselves. The willingness to take up arms and fight against government is actually a very British thing to do. War of the Roses which last 35 years, the 1st 2nd and 3rd English...

I'll focus on this, NEVER build negative rapport with chicks. When she starts b1tching about sh!t, change the subject. I have teenagers... and yeah teenagers are a pain in the @ss. Many women I've dated have teens too, when they start complaining about their kids, it would be SO EASY to just...

Try and get her on a date, if she won't meet up with you then forget about her. Messaging back and forth is a waste of time.

Your first instinct is correct. you are overthinking. Just kick back and have fun and stop worrying about what may or may not happen because you do not have any control over that. Don't fall for anything any woman says about her past... she might be telling the truth, but in my experience a...

Never been married, actually hate kids, never had any pets accept for this obnoxious parrot he inherited from his father when he died for a few years but his sister took it from him a couple of years ago. He's quirky about food, but has no bad habits that I know of, no smoking or drinking...

No idea... I'm guessing he does, he has a girlfriend, he had to meet her somehow. But damn that was/is a match made in heaven. She's just like him, home body, doesn't like to go out, is a programmer, works from home.

Does she turn you on? Is she pleasant and fun to be with? Is she low maintenance, flexible, and giving? Anything over that is irrelevant. If your standard is that she has to be smoking hot and sane... well... good luck.

I thought one of my kids was autistic when she was little... she was VERY sensitive to loud noises to the point where she would scream and cry when people were singing happy birthday, but we got her tested... she was fine. When I was growing up mild autism wasn't even diagnosed. Otherwise I...

Experience. Autism runs in my family. Some have a mild case... with professional help they can do fine. Pros can give them effective cooping skills. Some are very serious, and all the professional help in the world just gets them to the point where they can go to the store and shop for...

Own the fact that you don't control anything. It's like playing poker... you are dealt a hand, and you have to play what you have. It's like the old song "The Gambler". You get a bad hand... fold... and wait for the next hand. It's all about being present, learn from, but otherwise forget...

Take an improve class. Someone with autism needs serious professional help to develop acceptable social skills. Depending on the seriousness of the affliction, the best one can hope for is that they can get by without ticking people off.

The pandemic changed EVERYTHING for me. Nothing I liked to do was open for over a year.... the only upside of all that was I've saved a truckload of money. I have a cousin, who is basically a shut in, he is a contractor/programmer and worked from home anyway, spends his time playing Xbox. His...

If you actually know how to dance. I'm not talking about shaking around not knowing what you are doing, but really dance actual steps and know what you are doing... you will clean up at wedding receptions. Most men suck on the dance floor.... learn to dance and you will stand out.

Really much of the PUA/Dating/Relationship coaches are full of it. But there is always an element of truth. And the truth here is that everything starts with if the woman is attracted to you. If she isn't attracted to you you are wasting your time. Just because she is on a date with you...

There is a difference between attraction and interest. Attraction is a function of how you look and show up... height is important, but it is only one factor. What men need to do is get to the point where they are not trying to get chicks, but rather screen out the ones that are not attracted...

You have a mindset problem. You have to be okay with what you are and it can not bother you. You are short, you have to own it. If it bothers you, chicks will sniff out this insecurity like a dead skunk in the middle of the road. Getting her number is nothing. It's just a step. Just...

If this is real, and not some made up post (that happens here a lot in this forum) here is what happened..... First thing men need to understand about chicks is if you have been dating one for three or more months, she knows you better than you know yourself. She knows EXACTLY how to 'poke the...