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The last 3 or 4 days I've been on a big push to practice/experience/expose myself to the eye contact phenomena. I guess I'm bored. I happen to have been at alot of crowded malls, coffee shops, bookstores, and supermarkets. The goal was just to experience it. It didn't matter how ugly, hot...

Gotcha. I think we are describing the same thing. I am just not articulating it well when I say game on a macro level. I think of game from the Rational Male standpoint. Not Game from the PUA charlatans. I also see your point of character traits. The question then becomes, can someone...

The few I have been to (a few years ago and totally blue-pilled) it is similar to OLD except alot of the women give off a "I'm too good for OLD" vibe. The cross-section though of the women are pretty much what you would see walking down the street. A few fatties, a few uglies, bookish/serious...

From what I can gather just from your post, it doesn't seem like she has done anything - yet. If you were depressed and put on a few pounds, she could be in the early stages of imagining what it would be like with this dude. Sounds like he's a tad more Alpha than you at this point. (And I...

Why would non-exclusivity automatically mean low quality? My take on non-exclusive is basically don't say or do anything to commit to one person. That doesn't mean lie. It just means be honest. If the women has a busy life, career oriented, just got out of a marriage, or self aware, or who...

A buddy of mine I train jiu jitsu with is 50. I'm 47. His mom just passed away and his other circle of friends tell me he's becoming a miserable shut in. We are both going to 44 to 59 speed dating tomorrow. I'm taking him to get his ass out of the house. Plus it's good practice for me. I...

Thanks man. I'm from Queens also. Maspeth/Middle Village area. I am trying to get away from Online Dating. It's toxic in my opinion. Been doing it for 5 years. I need to man up and approach women in real life. Plus the quality is always notch better for me in person as opposed to online...

I am in NY. Live in Long Island, my offices are in the City. There are literally millions of women just stepping out my door. I know that. I am just very analytical and apply Game (Rational Male type game, not necessarily PUA game) across the board but I am learning there are different ways...

I've just recently started "real life" approaching (Game - for lack of better term). Last five years, after my amicable divorce, I've lived off of the cesspool and psyche debilitating Online Dating. I found the idea of Game and the manosphere recently and dove right in, devouring everything I...

Yes, yes, I know the disadvantages of speed dating. It's desperate (for both sexes), the woman has the upper hand, the guy is pretty much operating in a female's reality/frame right off the bat, etc. etc. but my admin at work (she is probably an extra few pounds HB6 who I have zero interest in)...

She sounds like the player in this situation. Maybe not the traditional "playa". But she is playing you. And if you believe she is living with a dude for financial reasons and not sleeping with him (at least occasionally) then I have a bridge I can sell you. And even if she is telling the...

I usually date women in the 35 to 52 range. I am 47. I find that under 35 you really don't need to make it known early on that you are spinning plates and are non-exclusive. When someone asks me after a few dates or even after sex, "What are we?' or "what are you looking for?" - I usually...

I don't think what you are saying is bad at all. But I am also on the blunt side. In some instances the bluntness put the girl on her heels. Meaning she was surprised (impressed) I was so honest up front. So it may end up working for you. Maybe it is just your delivery or tone? I am a black...

Two non-related questions: Anyone ever use a style consultant? Whether in person or over skype? Anyone know anyone who has? What is the feedback if any? I am 47. Growing the 10 day stubble for the first time. Light stubble looks dirty on me, going for medium to heavy. Hoping for touches...

Yeah. The other times were afternoon. Totally different vibe in the place. This time it was at night and unexpected I guess? Plus I'm new at this so I'm in my own head overthinking everything.

47 - divorced. Been OLD for the last 5 years. I woke up one morning recently and realized that's not real. Banging fat 5's is failure. Always worked on myself but not Game. After reading Rational Male (among other books) my mind was blown. Started dressing better and being bolder. I work...

My online opportunities will plummet but you're right. I've been filling up time online regardless of quality because of the fear of scarcity. Fear of having no plates to spin. So I spin anything then resent them. Going offline and into the real world is my best bet while dabbling online...

Time to find some niches and hobbies that are women heavy and commonplace for a 47 year old dude.

"It’s all contrived and forced and not natural. It’s like living in women’s frame/reality" - stormrider That last sentence in your post...you just said what I couldn't articulate but always "felt". Mind blown man. Probably the best depiction of online dating I have ever heard. It's clear...

I'm a 6+ based on feedback from the handful of 7s and above I was able to pull from online. Plus I have eyes. I see other dudes. Also these nightmare 5s and low 6s are almost 100% guaranteed sex when I'm with them. That actually makes me feel crappy because they're 5s. Not 7+. I'm hard on...