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  1. cola

    "I'm a pretty ugly guy so probably won't like me"

    Calling bullsh*t on this one. No offense.
  2. cola

    Getting stuck in a rut

    It’s perfectly normal for you to be in a rut right now, this wasn’t just a “girlfriend”, which is rather trivial. It was your wife and mother of your kids. You are human, that would be a devastating blow for anyone. Just let time run it’s course, but do not go back to her.
  3. cola

    Do You Get Butt Hurt By Flakes?

    Yea at this point(I’m 31, I think you are about the same age) it’s one flake and I never offer again. In fact I no longer reach out after a flake. She had to text and schedule the next meet up. You’d make sure you had a babysitter if I was a multimillionaire and you knew it.
  4. cola

    Do you think marrying wifey with a lot of debt is a form of financial cucking before-the-fact?

    I mean it’s 2020 bro, who doesn’t have credit card debt? And 5,000 isn’t a **** ton of money. It’s people with 80 and 90k worth of credit card debt. 5-10k is really nothing. if I ever got married it would be made clear: my bills are my bills, your bills are your bills and what we decide to pay...
  5. cola

    To read or not to read (a girl)

    Stuff like this just doesn’t happen to normal adults.
  6. cola

    Update :Crazy chick

    If this story is true, it’s imperative you get the authorities involved immediately before she does. If she gets the idea to go to the authorities and make up some lie, your life could be greatly impacted.
  7. cola

    What's your hit rate? What results should be ok?

    Which 85% of this forum doesn’t get. About 95% of the issues on this forum arise because the woman has a perceived higher or equal SMV.
  8. cola

    What's your hit rate? What results should be ok?

    This will probably shock you. I’m a firm believer in dating down. I’m 31, and after doing this for 10 years I don’t have time for the run around. I don’t enjoy a “challenge”. I’ve found that by being slightly more attractive than the target I keep the game playing, flaking and female aloofness...
  9. cola

    What's your hit rate? What results should be ok?

    10 phone number attempts: Convert 1-3(10-30%) 10 date attempts: Get 3-4 girls out on dates (30-40%) 3 dates: Sleep with 1-2 (33-66%) So basically if I can get them on a date I have a really good chance of sleeping with them, usually. Also this is done very passively. I just say hi to random...
  10. cola

    Any alternatives to meet more new women than discos,clubs or bars?

    This, you meet women through your hobbies. If you don’t have any hobbies time to get some. If all your hobbies are more geared to men, find a second hobby that appeals more to your feminine side.
  11. cola

    Best books?

    Rich dad, poor dad .. rich dad gets the girl.
  12. cola

    Single guys who sleep around, how are you finding hookups during this time where you have to stay seated at the bars?

    This is one period of time where online dating should be your primary method of meeting women. Bars aren’t the same. Nobody is mingling at bars right now, you kind of just stay around your group. Understandably so.
  13. cola

    Chasing a girl Vs Persistence

    Yes, perhaps but he’ll still have to put in more effort than a guy with a clear higher sexual market value. Is it worth a hour drive for a NY strip when the steakhouse across from your house has perfectly fine ribeyes? Either way your eating steak, ones just less time consuming.
  14. cola

    Chasing a girl Vs Persistence

    Date down. if you are a 7 date 5s If you are a 9 date 7s Want 10s? Get rich No need to chase or persist. Want hotter girls? Get hotter yourself.
  15. cola

    What do I do if I'm called out on a neg hit?

    A neg should be innocent and not cross the line into disrespect, also neg with a smile. Example: She spills her drink You say while smiling “OMG, you’re such a dork!” .. and then hopefully you both have a laugh about it. You shouldn’t be intentionally trying to hurt her feelings. its very...
  16. cola

    AMOG alpha male other guy or alpha male of group .. defensive tactics

    You don’t hang in groups of people who consider guys like that the “alpha male”..
  17. cola

    "Easy" girls choise in men

    I’ve actually find the opposite. The “easy” girls don’t like direct approach for some reason. I’d take her on a date. Also, just because she is “dating” three guys doesn’t mean she is having sex with three guys.
  18. cola

    Does Anyone Here Still play Video Games

    Spring/Summer maybe 6 hours a week. Winter time 15 hrs a week easily. Some people paint, some people build model cars some people play poker.. I’m a gamer. And it’s nothing wrong with that.
  19. cola

    Is 2 weeks too long of an interim time before first meet?

    As someone who used to work in a strip club as security, I want you to understand that these women have completely turned off their emotions and will use sex to manipulate you financially. There is no achievement nor should you feel any type of personal satisfaction in dating a stripper because...
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