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Are you familiar with my previous brain eruptions here on SoSuave? You failed to adhere to a couple of my basic tenets. The very first order of business when dealing with a new woman is to flip the script and let her know that you are evaluating her. Like most men, you, my friend, present...

OP, the mistakes you made have already been pointed out, so my advice to you is that you need a reset. Make a definite plan for an activity, then text her something like: Hey, I see you and me doing xyz next Saturday. You in? This shows boldness and directness, but more importantly it will...

You laughed at me once, and I’m still a wreck over it. :cry:

I’m of the opinion that when it comes to car doors, the “banger” is automatically at fault, and should swallow his pride, because the “bangee’s” anger is justified. It’s infuriating when people do this especially when you take great pains to take care of your vehicle. I think you handled it...

I banned them all! But seriously, I have noticed the tide turning for the better here. A lot of guys seem more willing to understand men’s problems and help them through it in a constructive way instead of the insta-berating that we have historically seen. New guys often come here wounded and...

That was extremely well said.

Murk, if your ego/anger issues almost sent you to prison, you really do need to acknowledge that this is a serious problem that needs to be addressed. I've been in the same boat several times in my younger life. People have done the most outrageous, selfish and careless things, and when it...

I’m sorry to hear about your troubles, @logicallefty. If you ever want to chat you know where to find me. You’ve got a lot of support from your brothers here at SS.

Be on the lookout for Zimbabwe2

Well of course. Is there any other way?

I’m amazed that you brought it up. I think it was 5 days ago I heard of this Atom Smasher superhero and thought “I’ll bet some of the guys think I’ve named myself after this guy” and made a mental note to check out who he actually is.

It’s funny you should mention that. I only became aware of the Atom Smasher hero a few days ago. I had no idea of his existence. I still don’t know what he looks or sounds like. I got my name from my interest in physics.

To your boss

That’s an excellent opener. I’ve used it many times.

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If I were you, I would NOT give it a second shot. You’re already too invested, and that smell lingers. The date revealed a chemistry problem. It is only natural for you to want to “save face”, but that can easily backfire into your kicking yourself for trying again. Dead horse, remember? Tell...

See my previous posts. You went in as a beggar, a puppy dog wanting to be accepted and loved. You had target fixation. You broadcasted that you were “all-in” if she were to accept you. Perhaps you were coming off a dry spell, so had no sense of abundance. Don’t be hard on yourself. We have all...

Bump time

No, rewarding decent, well-behaved women but coldly rejecting the brats and anyone who was disrespectful. Sometimes even decent women are capable of stumbling into saying something REALLY stupid, and even those I would earn my expressed disappointment with them. It is a very powerful thing to...

Yes, I was here as another user name before Atom Smasher (can’t remember for the life of me what it was), but I would talk to Pook and Antidump outside of SoSuave, and would talk to others within private messaging here.