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2021, 35 years old. Late to the game for sure. Was BP until earlier this year. I have had girlfriends and been mildly successful with women, but need to up my game. Bad breakup was the catalyst along with a few other personal issues. Fortunately, I work in an industry with exposure to a lot of...

Sounds like you should cancel your upcoming time with her and see what happens. If you feel she is playing games, she most likely is. Time for some silence and distance. Let that hamster spin.

Been there done that. Fortunately it was only a few months. However, I was a BP idiot and learned a ton of lessons. Thanks for sharing your story and hope you recover from that nightmare.

Glass, it almost sounds like that movie "good luck chuck". After they sleep with you, they find their "soulmate".

I was in a slightly similar situation. Considered obese for most of my life. Decided I had enough of being unhealthy and started eating clean and working out. Lost 44 pounds in the past 5-6 months. Eating clean, hitting the gym, and drinking almost nothing but water. What helped me was...

There's probably some negative aspects to the appearance of your building. But if she has high interest and wants to bang, she won't pay it too much attention. If you make it obvious that you're bothered by it and bothered by the fact she lives in a luxury place, you'll give off the vibe you're...

Keep your place neat, clean, and organized. If she cares how your place looks even if it's in that state, then she probably isn't worth your time anyways. If she's coming over, she most likely wants to bang and she isn't going to care too much about your apartment.

You're correct. My ex had scars on the inside of her thighs and arms from cutting. Unsuccessfully attempted suicide. Admitted to doing LSD in the past. Not sure if she did anything else. She was still messed up from all of that stuff and she was mid 30s. Add in all the tattoos, piercings, ear...

They seem "off" more often than not. Like they're not present in the moment. They may seem engaged but they're not fully there. That was my experience with an ex who was beaten and abused by a schizo mother growing up. The sex was fantastic and I could do almost anything I wanted to her but not...

Proceed with caution. I did the hard and fast falling thing in a few months and it was a big mistake. Control your feelings and slow it down. You may wind up in a worse place if this fling doesn't pan out.

You care too much about her and she can only help herself.

Not a bad idea to focus on yourself once in awhile. Besides, in the end, you'll only have yourself anyways.

I ended it because I could tell she was losing interest. I was definitely a rebound or side guy. She played the victim card when I did it and I just told her to go back to her ex eventually. That got me blocked so I guess I hit a nerve.

Christ, my ex has 2 of the don't pass go and 2 of the critical. I can say you're information is accurate. Well done sir.

I see it as a sign of a victim mentality. Also, respective exes should not be mentioned or have any weight on the current relationship. I'm not dating your ex, thus I don't need to hear about him or what he did or did not do. My last girlfriend mentioned one of her exes put a gun in her mouth...

Talking about or comparing you to an ex in any way. That happens and it's hard next for me. Not going to entertain any girl who is stuck in her past.

Article reinforces the point that she's never your girl, it's just your turn

I buzz it down every few days but I don't completely shave it. I was like you and started balding around 22. I just rock it as is and don't pay it any mind. Plenty of guys rocking the bald look these days and we save a ton of money on shampoo and haircuts!

Also plenty of evidence that people survived covid without the vaccine. You really do have a warped sense of reality when it comes to covid. You're all doom as if people choosing not to take the vaccine will end mankind. You're logic and thinking is on par with the narrative that if you don't...

You can choose to associate with whomever you please, but when you begin restricting what people can or cannot do based on vaccination status, you have crossed a line. When you start mandating that people "show their papers" in regards to vaccination status, that is not freedom. If the...