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    Why are there so many dudes in the PUA/Game community that don't have their sh*t together?

    I know a lot of guys who are earning well but don't have any options whatsoever - I think it depends on person to person- before I got into pua the women I dated were very egotistical and in general not my type personality wise - it's only when I increased my options I began to find really...
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    What is the best/most clever way to exchange numbers with a woman at work

    why not just meet women during the day? Don't **** where you eat - its not worth the awkwardness - if you're overanalysing one situation you most likely are teeing yourself up for failure- work hard to increase your options elsewhere
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    Unpopular "Game" Opinons!

    some approaches end in seconds due to the women instantly rejecting or saying she had a boyfriend - some on the other hand can go on for 10 -15 minutes if the woman invests in an interaction- I think I got my first daygame lay on my 90th approach but between that one and my first there were...
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    Unpopular "Game" Opinons!

    I mean the definition of HVM is subjective in itself? what wage or net worth do you need to start cold approaching? I think cold approaching and social skills can build up peoples skillsets in other areas of their life too - once I started getting a couple of lays from daygame my sales skills...
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    Feel the butterflies and approach!

    depends - sometimes persistence can go a long way - in daygame it was 6 months before I got my first actual lay but then the a few stunners quickly followed - sometimes it just takes one good success that can be the springboard for more- getting from 0 to 1 daygame lay is a hell of a lot...
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    Unpopular "Game" Opinons!

    good on you for having a work ethic and committing to it. 99.9999 percent of men don't approach enough- I never got into the idea of shaming men for cold approaching too much.
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    Unpopular "Game" Opinons!

    chasing tail gives you life experience , reference experience which can be invaluable. Being lonely and having no experience with women can lead to issues as well. plenty of high value men have no options sincerely because they don't approach enough - men need to approach - the younger they...
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    Unpopular "Game" Opinons!

    2. follow ups can still work I've had women flake on me and came back into the fold months later with them commenting on my IG stories- if she flakes through text make sure you close on instagram you can re hook her with instagram stories...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    Competition can be a great motivating factor - but it diminishes. we are human beings we want to be appreciated and cared for-in hyper competitive cities - most men in the west have a mountain to climb in the sexual market place - most women in the East are in a tricky spot economically also...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    never had sex with a Filipino - only went on one coffee date with one and it amounted to nothing - Ironically the race that has "blown me out the most" has been Filipino women- maybe they don't like my look or Middle Eastern ancestry Japanese - slept with 1 in China and she was a beauty - a...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    competition is great in that it can bring the best out of you- it can motivate you to be better , improve your social skills and improve your life - but it also gets to a point where too much competition and hoeflation and damage morale and cause some men to loose motivation - so its a fine...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    after a month of daygame in China (and as someone who's gamed extensively in London by comparison) I said it was easier- women were more friendly and appreciative that doesn't mean every approach went well and that certainly doesn't mean every date lead to sex but I did feel a lot more...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    I day gamed in China and I say the quality there is definitely higher than London and the US - you also get respect a lot more for being a westerner there- I don't see this as "victim hood" I see it as just analysing which market is the best for a man to be in. Of course some degree of daygame...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    it's the worst its been in the west whilst being the best time to be alive in south east Asia as a white man with decent smv you can slay pretty well. Young working class men in western countries probably suffer the most as they might not be able to move to Asia or don't have the maturity to...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    blanket statements like this whilst in theory seem correct there is also time management aspect involved too Compared doing daygame to London To Shanghai I was able to get as many lays in Shanghai as I was in London with 3 times less approaching , with more enjoyable dates and women who had...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    geographically its just hard to be appreciated as a man in the west. - having doing daygame in China, Kazakstan and Saudi comparing the reactions to London it was just far easier in south east asia than it was in London. Hoeflation is real in the west- I see my female cousins in America being...
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    How to make your dating life less dreadful

    Washington had a lot of hot Asian Americans - so too with Dallas a big Korean and Vietnamese community there and they're beautiful - but obesity is a big issue - a lot of fat women in the US compared to Asia - I still think Asian cities like Seoul and Shanghai are the best for daygame purely on...
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    How to make your dating life less dreadful

    I don't do online dating but 10 years ago when I was 21 I used tinder in Dallas and I matched with a **** load of single mum's and a handful of attractive women . In London I'd never matched with a single mom at all - was kinda weird that so many of them were on the apps in Dallas and...
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    How to make your dating life less dreadful

    I did a spot of night game in Austin in 2014 and I enjoyed it - I think Austin is a beautiful place but again sparse foot flow compared wise compared to somewhere like London . Maybe I take my home town for granted
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    How to make your dating life less dreadful

    last 4 times I've been in Dallas I've been in a relationship so didn't do any daygame but just analysing the city- my favourite part is Legacy West as it's the nicest restaurants and great food - but the foot flow is sparse by comparison - I was just in Dallas this month for my cousin's wedding...
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