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  1. BergischerLöwe

    17 year old waitress in a bar.

    Hmm doesn’t seem like anything I can count on, I never get those kinda signals from waitresses or cashiers. At least not any that are obvious enough for me to act on
  2. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Came across this reddit post the other day, the OP sums up a lot of the same things I feel
  3. BergischerLöwe

    17 year old waitress in a bar.

    How do you go about approaching them? I've seen countless times where guys on forums advise others not to approach waitresses or cashiers. Last year in my own life there was a really cute cashier that I always saw when I went to the store, but didn't even think of trying to actually game her due...
  4. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I know that, but there's no method that seems ideal for me. With every prospective option as to shat I should do, there's more drawbacks than advantages. Cold approach, social circle, apps; all of those have serious limitations for me and there doesn't really seem to be any actually good...
  5. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    atm I'm not really sure how I'd break into the music production game, but once I'm good enough at recording on my 4 track machine and I get a reel to reel deck for mastering I could potentially seek out local bands to record and charge them a flat rate to record an EP or something. All my...
  6. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Hmm I'll look him up. Right now my studio is my apartment and my mom's basement so I can relate to that bit at least lol
  7. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Right now I'm learning how to record on analouge equipment and I have some decently nice microphones and preamps but it'll be a while I think before I'd be able to record people and charge money
  8. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    All the women I've been with have been white, but comparatively non-SJW. Unfortunately I don't really have a career tbh. I wanted to study music production in college but I couldn't since the program had a minimum GPA to get in and my grades weren't good enough. Not because I was a bad student...
  9. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I've talked to doctors about that before and as far as anyone can tell I just have bad genetics when it comes to that. I think in order to get rid of that fat I'd have to get liposuction
  10. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    That's another impression I get, that Indian women wouldn't consider me unless I had some sort of white collar profession, which I do not. As for SJW white women there's no way I would date anybody even remotely associated with SJWism. I don't associate with leftists or SJWs in any way. Indeed...
  11. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I can't really do anything with social circle game as it stands now. My social circle is very small and I only really have one friend that I hang out with on a regular basis.The last time I would have maybe been able to try social circle game was when I was like 18/19, but times have changed and...
  12. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Moving to a downtown area would be a complete 180 from the goals I have as far as where I'd want to live. I've always wanted to buy land in the country and live there. Even if I went to another gym I wouldn't be able to just go and start approaching. It would take years of work before I'd be...
  13. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    There's also the fact that I do the olympic lifts every day I go to the gym, and commercial gyms have little facilities for that kind of training and many don't at all. Also like I said I'm not willing to pay for another gym membership and many women say they really don't like being approached...
  14. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Maybe but most of the time people really advise against approaching at the gym. But if I approached a girl anywhere irl I would just feel like I'm bothering her. Most women would not be receptive to an approach I make, I can't really see cold approach working for me in any scenario
  15. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I don't really want to live in a really urbanized area tho, not as chill
  16. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    That doesn't fundamentally do anything for the problems I've described
  17. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    A suburb of a fairly large city in the midwest
  18. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Well like I said apps have given me diminishing returns yet I completely rely on them, and trying irl isn't really all that viable either for the reasons I've already mentioned. That's where I feel stuck, there's not really a good option as to what I should focus on
  19. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Apart for some additional insight about my situation not much. I still feel just as screwed and not really sure what to do anymore. I feel stuck in the place I'm in
  20. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I know that mustaches are sometimes perceived negatively, but I can grow a good mustache and I like how it looks on me. It's a handlebar mustache with the ends turned up, I'm German so it just grows in that way lol. Without a mustache I look way too boyish, despite how mustaches are occasionally...
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