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  1. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    Dog walking alone. 2 X 4 dogs at £12 = £96 for 2 hours dog walking. = £24,000 per year. Walking 2 hours per day. (Unlikely to be doing when I reach a high age) Obviously deduct expenses and taxes. Perhaps introduce employees. Say give them dogs to walk and give them 60% of...
  2. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    I get it the world has a hard-on for fighter jets I totally get it. The thing is if that's what I were meant to be doing, I'd be doing it. This is what I've been struggling with and is my sticking point. I meant to be doing something else, It's obvious. Where I've ****ed up is I've...
  3. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    One of the main reasons I haven't got a job why I'm it's a sticking point for me it is because it isn't something I truly want. I think I've put a subconscious block on it. I hate working for people, hate being told what to do and hate being in the system, hate not being in control. That's...
  4. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    Nature of the work. When the company went bust the workforce scattered to different parts of the world. The ones that stayed changed career. The problem I have is getting Infront of people. If I could just get interviews it would be easy.
  5. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    Thanks man. I've been living in a different country for the last 7 years only recently came bank. So lots of big changes. In a short space of time. Also I got involved with the broken women that put me through a blender in the other thread I made. Realistically I probably used the...
  6. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    What I do have going for me is my net worth. Basically I was super successful before I took a break. The break was moving to a country I initially didn't intend on staying in (no industry for me there). I met a women and settled there. Took a job for fun for a while but relied on my...
  7. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    Especially in my industry. I could go to Saudi Arabia. I have contacts there. I know I can earn huge amounts tax free there. Not a life I want to life though. In my country I've been outside the industry for too long. Need something different for sure.
  8. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    Had a few people project their insecurities on me like this.
  9. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    I have thought about it. I don't know where I would start ? Or what I would do I've toyed with the idea of a dog walking business. Although I couldn't see me doing that for the rest of my life.
  10. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    That's great. Yeah I'm actually excited about this. It's definitely the direction I want to go. I'm just having trouble getting off the blocks. I'm eager but there is something mental that's preventing me taking action. Realistically I could un**** myself by doing something as simple as...
  11. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    I only mean stay away from women while I try to un**** myself. Basically I mean a job, back into my house, a routine with my hobbies. Definitely going to be women in my life either casual or a relationship. I'm just toying with the idea of staying away for a couple of months. Which...
  12. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    I'm similar too you. I'm an introvert but I can flip into extrovert. I'm naturally a bit of both. Job wise I'm not putting emphasis on a job that allows me to be around women. Although having a job that I'm not ashamed of resonates with me. For me would be literally anything working...
  13. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    I'm not a socially inept loser. I've just taken the wrong path, and not made the best decisions lately. I suppose my focus in this order? 1. Health and fitness 2. Money (getting financial sorted ) 3. Sex and intimacy 4. Social circle
  14. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    Currently I have. 1. Focus on health and self care because of that brakes I will crumble. I really need to learn discipline. 2. I need a job, litrerally any job at this point. I keep toying with the idea of starting a dog walking business. I suppose at this point I need to...
  15. CaptFinnBad

    I need to un**** my life

    After a decade long relationship to a good women. I moved back home. Now jobless and living with family , I got into a relationship with a women that mangled my brain. So here I am..... 37. 1. Physically not in the best shape. I'm on the slimmer side (although I do lift quite a lot)...
  16. CaptFinnBad

    Ex contacted me today about missed period.

    Yeah I don't want to go down that path. Fighting with her,making her feel bad or one upping her, Isn't going to achieve or change anything. Unfortunately her dark past (right from early childhood) has caused her to be this way. I do pity her because I genuinely believe she wants a healthy...
  17. CaptFinnBad

    Ex contacted me today about missed period.

    No man. She tends to get inside your head, you deeply connect fall in love and that what she uses against you. She's always been with strong men (usually battle hardened soldiers) each one she has story about. One was particularly abusive and evil. The rest I think lost their minds on...
  18. CaptFinnBad

    Ex contacted me today about missed period.

    What do you mean by cluster B?
  19. CaptFinnBad

    Ex contacted me today about missed period.

    Never experienced anything like this before its insane. I've been in good relationships. I was with my previous ex for a decade. When we broke up sure it hurt but it was all very normal. With this ex it's different. She basically created an cortisol and oxytocin addiction in me ...
  20. CaptFinnBad

    Ex contacted me today about missed period.

    Well it seems like she's accomplished her mission. I've not spoken her since the "negative", but she has managed to get right inside my head. I found myself thinking about her this morning and actually missing her all day. Not good! Litrerally I had just gotten her out my head , I was...
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