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The RSDNation forums going up in smoke pisses me off because I was a member there from like 2010-2014 and wrote some very good posts. It was like a journal for me, and whenever I got myself into a rut, I'd go back and read my own posts to remind myself of insights I needed in those moments. Now...

This is an in-depth question that a recent fiasco with my LTR led me to ask. Should we ever stop screening our LTR girl? I think, in a lot of respects, being screened and passing screening is extremely rewarding for the girl. She feels continually challenged and like she has something to work...

I haven't posted on this site in years, but this post caught my attention and brought me back. Everyone on this site NEEDS to read that book. It revolutionized my life. IF you read it and do the exercises, you WILL notice improvement in your life. The great thing about this book is that...

Post of the year? I read this post without the original context of Mr. P's situation and applied it purely to myself and damn... I'm saving this. Posts like these change lives.

This was a mind-blisteringly awesome post. Profound. Good to see you back, Fingz. Your presence here is very much appreciated. :yes:

IMO many guys are misunderstanding direct game or have no understanding of it at all. Badboy and Shark were the main proponents of direct game back in the day. The basic gist is opening with "Hi, I like you and I want to get to know you" and then you proceed to build rapport and qualify and...

Man, I really love this post. It's like a summation of what sosuave is all about -- what separates this place from every other seduction site. The focus is on living for YOURSELF, NOT for women. I'm definitely bookmarking this. Rock on. -Duke

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Man, I can definitely tell you learned all of this from the school of hard knocks ;) . Very good stuff that I wish I'd read years ago, but I'm still young yet so I am sure it will come into play again to good effect. I like how you pointed out that some women aren't even ready for a cool guy...

Oh man. Fingers, you are like an oasis here in this desert called Sosuave. I haven't the time to read this right now (gotta jet to attend class), but my loins are quivering in anticipation. Your efforts are much appreciated, playboy, and it's good to see you haven't given up on this place.

Pure gold and un-bumped since the beginning of 2004! A tragedy! But don't worry, I'm correcting it :) . :up:

Yeah, this tip is right on. What I find happens is that ,slowly but surely, you start becoming so enveloped in the girl's world that she can no longer be in YOUR world, because YOUR world has become so infused with hers that YOUR world is no longer unique. Basically, you start caring about her...

Great post. This reminds me of when my ex told me she liked a little pudge in guys' stomachs. Stupidly, I used this as an excuse to stop working out, even though I enjoyed working out. So yeah, do what you believe is best for you, regardless of what others think or say about it. Fukk it...

The original poster's advice is try-hard. But I also disagree that you should instantly "next" a chick for flaking. Simply make the time you DO spend with her more enjoyable and always leave her wanting more. If you make yourself too available, then she'll take time with you for granted and...

heel –noun a contemptibly dishonorable or irresponsible person: We all feel like heels for ducking out on you like this. -dictionary.com Basically, a "heel" is the bad guy. If you ever watched pro-wrestling, the characters are either "heels" or "faces", which derives from "babyface."...

I agree with Babnik. There's been a major assault on the word "nice" to the point that recovering sycophants slingshot into the other direction and become condescending and full of false confidence. Being "nice" is what awesome guys do. They aren't so paranoid about losing value that...

Working out does not deplete testosterone levels, it elevates them. The buff dudes you see in the gym are calm precisely because they have a lot of testosterone. When you're weak and your body looks and feels like a marshmallow, you've got estrogen and it makes you emotional, cranky...

As expected, excellent post, and I love how you identified what's wrong with the the inhabitants of this board AND suggested solutions to the myriad of problems that people are letting hold them back. It became quite obvious to me, at least 6 months ago, that sosuave had become a cesspool of...

Fingers!!! I am crying tears of joy to see you back! i haven't even read your new post yet, but I definitely am! I'm just so fvcking happy to see you back. How's your musical career going man?

What the fvck is up with this shyt? Read Senor Fingers' posts to get a lesson in censorship avoidance mastery! :yes: