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  1. Hamurabimbi

    Girlfriend has hinted at threesomes when drunk (with other women)

    my previous GF. When drunk, saw a photo of my GF 2 iterations before (whom I’m still friends with). She wanted a 3 some. A few nights later I was drinking with that ex- & mentioned the suggested 3 some. My ex-agreed. I called my GF (who was sober) & she backed out.
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    Whats up with banning notable members in here?

    they’re banned? I enjoyed them. That’s a bummer.
  3. Hamurabimbi

    Texting Turns-off

    I’ve not had a bad experience on Tinder (Strange: yes. Bad: no). For a lot of girls Tinder is for when they’re horny & wan’t a ‘dvck appointment.’. And that’s OK. I don’t mind being used as a living dild0.
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    Texting Turns-off

    I’ve been accused of being a ‘dry texter’ I’ve found that letting women do most of the texting, while not being a weirdo, works well. Most women are horny and even if you are ‘coy’, they will fill the gaps with their imagination. I’ve noticed girls are often very open to initiating naughty texting
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    The most underrated factor determining you'll be her "Mr Right"

    A lot of things related to attraction happen well below the conscious level. For example: I was to meet some friends at a coffee shop to play some card games. As I entered the shop, this girl who was sitting there and she jumped up and said ‘nice pants!’. It was a whirlwind. It was a...
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    Women are cold as ice( and that's oke)

    I don’t understand. What do you mean by ‘cold’?
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    Initiating female contact as a male gender role is not as bad as it seems

    I’m a bit odd myself. My GF told me; ‘You’re an odd duck.’. An FWB rejected my wanting a relationship saying; ‘You’re far nerdier & weirder than I could have possibly imagined.’. I don’t think I’m on the Spectrum. Rather just very eccentric & narcissistic. I had an unusual childhood & some...
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    Initiating female contact as a male gender role is not as bad as it seems

    I used to occasionally work near the Castro (the gayest part of SF). Gay baristas would often give me free coffee. I drank it black.
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    Fellas stop thinking you're not good looking enough

    The ginger is packing.
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    Initiating female contact as a male gender role is not as bad as it seems

    No real update. I haven’t had a Black GF in a while. I still find Black women very hot. But. My GF is not Black.
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    Initiating female contact as a male gender role is not as bad as it seems

    actually. my current GF is not Black.
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    Initiating female contact as a male gender role is not as bad as it seems

    I think ‘ideal man’ ‘Mr. Right’ are just outdated concepts. . Maybe something out of Jane Austen. . I don’t believe women really think like that. I doubt I’m any woman’s ‘Ideal Man’. I’m a short nerd. Granted, I have a good face, but I’m in no way a ‘classic Chad.’. Yet I don’t have a...
  13. Hamurabimbi

    Initiating female contact as a male gender role is not as bad as it seems

    I wouldn’t say it is ‘common’, but women absolutely do approach. I’ve been approached and definitely am not ‘turned off’ by it. It actually makes me like her more as she had the moxie to shoot her shot. Although I can’t prove it, I’d bet that since the advent of Feminism, the frequency of...
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    The most underrated factor determining you'll be her "Mr Right"

    Sometimes people look like someone or remind them of someone. If that was positive (or negative) It may transfer. Some people look like a classic archetype look. And that may have an effect as well.
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    These things have happened over multiple jobs in multiple fields with different employers. e.g. Healthcare, Tech, Travel….
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    The ‘IOI’s I get at work are unambiguous. Which is one reason I never get in trouble. e.g. a coworker hopping on my desk, wiggling her a$$ and asking if I ,need a sexratatary?’. Or being offered a BJ by a coworker in a company vehicle.
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    Fellas stop thinking you're not good looking enough

    Most attractive people are in a relationship most of the time. If a woman acts coy, she’s probably in a relationship. If she’s not in a relationship and is interested in you, it will be obvious.
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    Fellas stop thinking you're not good looking enough

    I was ignoring a coworker who had irritated me. She came up to me and said angrily ‘I’m pretty!’
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    Storytelling in LTR?

    You. as an accmolished writer. can do that. Most people would struggle though.
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