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Yeah after this having happened I'm certainly seeing everything from a different state of mind. These recent events have given me an emotional state less clouded by my feelings of despair and frustration surrounding my perceived inability to meet women that plagued me during the dry spell. I...

I see

How should I edit it? In that paragraph just wanted to know if anyone has had this same issue I've described. I've seen guys be far more graphic in their writing on here but I just wanted to apologize for the vulgarity of my words just in case

Well, gents, as of a week ago my dry spell is OVER. Just as I was giving up on dating apps, by chance I matched with a girl on there who has a lot in common with me and we hit it off, then the day before Christmas eve I went to see her and the rest is history. Then earlier today I met up with...

I'm not going to use an escort, I've already discussed elsewhere on this forum why I won't

Those four things in that list seem like the most attainable goals. Even if they don't lead to anything at the very least achieving those goals puts me in a better place than before

For what it's worth I've drafted a provisional list of new years resolutions: 1. Get career counseling 2. Do NOT swipe on apps even once throughout the entire course of the year 3. Get down to below 20% bodyfat 4. Go on a date with a woman I've first met in real life

Ultimately I have to accept my situation for what it is, but I worry about my ability to cope. But in any case I have to accept that I'll probably never meet the right woman for me. That'll likely be the case for me regardless of whether or not I'm able to cope. It's like one's own death; it...

I still need to get career counseling, it's a new years resolution I have

Well as far as fundamentals, what would I most need to work on?

Well I understand that some on this forum have gone to escorts and had fulfilling experiences, but going to an escort myself won't solve anything. It fails to address the fundamental root of my problems meeting women, in that I desire a stable long term relationship with a woman I'm truly...

I really do wish women approached men more often. If women did that I would have never had any trouble dating at all. But of course I could never count on that happening in all actuality. It's so rare for women to approach men they're interested in. Sometimes I fantasize about somebody making a...

Amusing video but what was the point of posting that?

The longer I keep reading threads on this forum, the longer I feel like I truly have no way of meeting women. Apps are dead, meetup is a bunch of single guys with the same idea, there's no third spaces to meet women, cold approach would never work for someone with my personality and lifestyle...

How could I ever steal someone else's girl when I've never even gotten a date from a girl I've first met irl? I would NEVER be able to pull that off

I see guys far worse looking and far less masculine than me with hot girls. I can't tell you how many times I've seen a hot girl I'd want to date with some skinnyfat beta loser boyfriend on her arm and thought to myself "This guy could be knocked over by a stiff breeze, is the really going out...

I looked for meetup groups in my area and I found nothing remotely interesting. But I've heard from others that have gone this route that there's hardly and dateable women in those groups and it's mostly single guys with the same idea. People have suggested Meetup to me plenty of times and it...

Man I keep getting these really bad waves of frustration about my situation. It just goes on and on with no end in sight. It's just so baffling to me: I'm in the prime of my life and I'm far more physically attractive and healthy than I've ever been, yet I'm just not meeting anyone AT ALL. I'm...

So I should change my perception entirely? What's the proper outlook to have with all of this in your opinion?

I already fully expect not to meet any women next year. Can't keep my hopes up