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    Trying to "mold" her

    I would come back in time and be born to my uncle. With Him as a father I would have 50% of my current problems fixed.
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    Can a nice guy change his nature?

    Yes, actually I'm seying this in a friend relationship. Look like case one! (Even if in this LTR she has cheated on him in their first month togheter). I would never take back a woman like that.
  3. J

    Trying to "mold" her

    My brother-in-law actually has a "bad guy" attitude, and there are people around him who say he is petty or appears to be a scoundrel. For example, he enters both formal and informal settings with the same demeanor: he never says "Hi everyone," but instead starts with a simple "Hi" or makes an...
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    Can a nice guy change his nature?

    Look like this is not only women related.
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    Can a nice guy change his nature?

    What If you don't estabilish boundaries early, and She will test em without going over em? Look like this is not only women related. What if you have a 5 year LTR with a woman, and you've been a nice guy till today, but since today you start acting with assertiveness and appliying boundaries?
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    Can a nice guy change his nature?

    Do you do it like reading a contract out loud to them, or do you do it when they test or cross those boundaries? I mean, women don't want the truth, they want lies, we know that, so how do you do this the right way?
  7. J

    Trying to "mold" her

    From what you say it would seem easy and painless. Because finding her feminine and submissive takes me little to go to the Philippines, the problem is that you have to stay there, and not bring her here. From your experiences what have you discovered? When and How you do it, it's my biggest issue.
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    Trying to "mold" her

    I'll tell you a short story about how I changed her behavior, towards me, by not validating her. I was inspired by a friend who did this with his girlfriend. In short, my girlfriend makes me food, but I always eat it cold, and she never puts it in warm. One day, at lunch, instead of thanking...
  9. J

    Almost all relationships that are ended by women are already trash before

    Curious about this scenario which I don't see here in Italy, since people would just cheat or divorce
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    Subtle Flirting

    What do you do if you're in an LTR and find yourself in a situation where you're with your wife and another woman who desires you, shows signs of interest, and flirts with you? It would be awesome to know how would you act, to correctly show "feedback" to both women: your GF and the other...
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    why do woman respond to "detached" guys?

    It depends on the woman type
  12. J

    Women are more narcissistic than men

    They might have a predisposition for it. (Given the times, it's more free now than before)
  13. J

    Most and Least Attractive Male Hobbies

    Or while "settling down" with that men, she "cheat" on the tattoed one I was thinking about buying a motorcycle to give the idea that I'm a biker, but I've felt for a scooter. There are still no hobbies who can provide childless women after their 30's..
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    Can a nice guy change his nature?

    In the first instance, I want to change as a man. That's a big part that made me into an "afraid nice guy". Now, I wonder if this is something I can find in our western culture, since there is a fact that I love of myself: Is that I am Italian. I just imagine you love the fact you're native of...
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    Structuring your life

    If you are having trouble figuring out who you want to be in life because you lack guidance, Gonzalo Lira explains how to structure your life by decades. While it may not be a guaranteed method, it is a valuable idea to help you create a plan and stick to it, providing you with a clearer vision...
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    Can a nice guy change his nature?

    There are people who remind me that I'm the "nice guy." Unfortunately, the traits on my face communicate this without me having to move or say anything. However, I want to stop being just a nice guy. Like many of you, I wonder why some people achieve good life results while the nice guys are...
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    Most and Least Attractive Male Hobbies

    I have started to understand relationships from the opportunistic perspective of how women view them. It’s pragmatic. Every woman is different and values different traits in a man. This is somewhat akin to why women may "monkey branch" while men are often taken aback. It’s a natural phenomenon...
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    Subtle Flirting

    We know that one of the ways to keep your partner loyal is to be desirable to other women. The fact is that women's natural hypergamy means they want exclusive access to attractive men who have been pre-screened by other women. When you're with your girlfriend, you actually have to flirt...
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    The line between gossip and talking about others lives when they're not around

    That's what I thought at first. She wanted me to validate her interest, then she could have a secrect sex moment with me, and then she may decide if keeping the old or go with the new. Do all women monkey-branch? I just know most of them just meet a new guy (most of time at work or school or...
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