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Ok, the Tyrone was gay. I got the truth of the whole thing.

If touch-starved (as I am), then at least paying for company from women, but limit to naked dancing, hugging, cuddling in case the experience is too overwhelming (ie you don't have to sex an escort/prostitute if you don't feel comfortable). If not comfortable or out of budget, then try getting...

That is not fair. Other posters have chimed in and have extended the thread. It's just very cringe that's all. Also, all of the heavy weights, including Desdinova and Pierce,etc... have all made major contributions and really put their heart and soul into some of their replies. Do you...

According to @Desdinova, you have to scoop a girl from a stale LTR that she's no longer satisfied with in order to get into another LTR, otherwise, there's probably a reason they are single right?

That doesn't sound right. I guess it makes your day nicer to have any type of contact with her right? It's a bit humilating when you have to open a girl all the time and she never opens or she opens with another guy. I don't think that she would have gone out with you if she's not open to...

Why a bar? I should be in the GYM for 4 hours. I mean, maybe a half-hour of intense weights or pushups, but the rest of the time can be cardio right? It's only the GYM, no bar.

Yeah, but I'm not talking about her though. You know other users, like @Rainrain resurrected this thread, not me. It's a public thread. The contents of this thread sound disturbing and people who don't normally post are going to come out of the wood work. That can not be helped.

Dude, that's great! Seriously, guys pay for that type of sh1t on OF (ie not me). You at least have a connection and decent interaction with her. That in and of itself is worth its weight in gold. Appreciate what you have there. How is the quality of interaction with her? Does she...

When you can do what I did. When she's alone and not with the other guy, like just approach her and ask if you can sit beside her. That's what I did with in my other thread. Make sure you sit literally right next to her if you sit with her. I joined the forum since 2005, so techncially you...

Exactly. I've followed the advice on here not to pursue this girl and therefore that demonstrates coachability and that I am listening to advice on here.

You are in good company. Nah, women are different. Have you tried looking at youtube videos of nice looking women talking about nice topics when you encounter situations like that so at least you don't feel so bad? That is what I do to cope when I feel that way and you are seeing the girl...

If given a choice between a) approach the crush that rejected you again verses 2) watch a video of Christina Randall or whomever else you want to watch, which do you think is the better option? The only commitment I have made to watch those "parasocial videos" is if the crush is also in the...

Other posters, such as @Gamisch does not think so.

There is a wierd mental block with him. Not sure if I can vibe. But your advice is noted.

They look at, their own phones, together (in proximity). How did that make you feel? Were you jealous?

Are you seeing OTHER guys that are close ot her? What is your competition like?

@Rainrain here is an article I just google searched for parasocial relationships. https://health.clevelandclinic.org/parasocial-relationships On the reading of it, it doesn't show anywhere that these types of relationships are unhealthy and looks like a net positive. I'm trying to cultivate...

It easy for you to say something like that since you are not isolated.

This particular Tyrone guy has long dreadlocks hair, is younger, and has a more energetic and youthful vibe. I'm not going to be able to compete with that no matter what work I put into my appearance. It's just a case where he's just like amogging all of the ladies around and you just dread...

Of course, this is the mindset in how I approached this. No question about that. The problem is it's hard to take baby steps if you are amogged or expected to perform some tight game when you are up to bat. You've seen the feedback I got from other posters about those baby steps?