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She was giving "solid hugs" not FZ hugs to the other guys (ie based on what he was saying). That means there is an attractive/sexual component to the hugs. If it were straight FZ hugs, chances are, he would have been hugged too. You don't get triggered by FZ hugs as they are a joke.

What is triggering is that they were not FZ hugs, but full-body hugs. If they were FZ hugs, I don't think we would be having a thread or discussion about it.

I also have a gentle disposition too. Perhaps you are on to something. I wouldn't say this home is dysfunctional though. I did have a rough childhood in terms of getting builied at school or being socially excluded in some occassions. Things evened out in the later in my tweens. People have...

I agree with what you are saying and feel the same way about it. Apart from religious considerations (ie bumping on a youtube video with a NDE about Christians who are fapping going to hell, etc....), I don't have a practical issue with it (I guess that's because there are enough brakes placed...

What type of porn are you looking at? (Ie softcore or hardcore)

That is very anticlimatic for what was supposed to be a thrilling experience. It could also be that porn has rewired your brain. It fits a textbook profile that porn ruins the desire to be with real women. When was the last time you looked at porn and fapped?

Did you like that or is fapping to porn more fun?

That's big. What do you think worked this time? Did you stay away from porn? Did you think it was more risque and you could get caught and that turned both of you on more? She sounds like a slvtty type of girl, to lead you to a toilet, so you both sexed each other. Maybe she is ovulating...

This is a different girl to the one you claimed in another thread you had sex with in a cafe yesterday? I mean if you are worried about how they are going to deal with you having sex with a woman in an apartment, how are they going to handle you did this in a cafe toilet with another girl? Did...

I think you are looking for someone with a higher caliber? You are a medical student with high hopes for the future. The type of woman that would degrade herself like won't leave a good taste in your mind for dealing with her. Why did you go to a cafe toilet? Was this her idea? Your idea...

You are not being an anti social douchebag if you are being rejected by women and have given up and are reading a book instead. It is because they have rejected you. Bringing a book is your cope not to have to deal with rejection. Of course it sucks when women ignore you and don't take you on...

I guess we are seeing a trend here, that if you are working in a full-time job, it zaps your energy to socialize because you are too drained. It comes like having a relationship in and of itself in an abstract way.

I have a list of 299 videos on a playlist on youtube called "watch this rather than approaching any woman inside your work cafeteria (ie to get rejected by them, etc...)". I have a few rules for those videos: 1) They can't be played if I'm by myself or there are just guys in the cafeteria...

Eject for a year or more? You mean you would quit your job over that? You would leave a social group if a lady refused to hig you?

There was this "gay" guy at my work that was hugging up different ladies at the office and he liked playing with their hair. The women were either receptive to him, or were initiating hugs themselves with him. No event or occasion. Well, I'm not sure if we can compare the behaviour of gay...

This is an important thing then. The idea posited by @SW15 that this is "next to nothing", and what you said earlier, that it does not "mean anything" is not really true. If it really did not mean anything, or "next to nothing" is you would never have given her a gift in order to receive a...

No, she is married, and this is all being done in the same room where both my mother and father are present and they don't want us doing those things with each other. Also when we last hugged each other, they did a site inspection in the house and that ruffled some feathers with us here. One...

You don't say?

I did not say it was offensive. The point is, the lady didn't like him compared to the other guys. Generally when you experience that then you feel bad. Then when you go home your mind plays tricks, blows things out of proprotion, makes you feel like you are sub-human that's unworthy of love...

What was the quality of the hug? Was it like a brief type of hug, or was it like a more "deeper" type of hug? I'm assuming it was a deep hug, where she's throwing her body to the guys and it's like a semi-fondling/hug thing? Is that what got you triggered?