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  1. ubercat

    Grow up....

    Got them all. Damn guess I m an adult now. Didn't see that coming. I d add for old dogs like me a bottle of 30 YO port. You can't do the quantity anymore so you have to do the quality.
  2. ubercat

    Dont feel like dating anymore

    I m in 50s have same notch count and been in LTRs most of my life. I personally think you're doing great a lot of men never get comfortable in their own skin. I suppose the only thing you have to think about as you get older is legacy but there's alternative arrangements now if you want a kid...
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    Do you guys feel like doing nothing after a workday?

    It's the poisoned well. One toxic manipulator can poison a team. If they are higher up then that becomes the company culture. Dan rusts book workplace poker is well worth a read for the different types of toxic company culture. Today's workplace I think it's good advice to never leave the...
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    Video: Wife's indifferent soul crushing confession to Husband

    Not easy but good woman can be found. I think you usa and uk guys can tilt the field in your favour immediately by looking for immigrant women. There s plenty ywho have imported themselves have got citizenship or residency. It worked for me and @Fruitbat and backbreaker i don't think any of...
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    Female self deception is a survival mechanism??

    We do have choices available to us. However smart people around you will always be trying to control and manipulate the information you make those choices on. We've swallowed the red pill we've opened eyes up to 1 type of manipulation there r many others
  6. ubercat

    Do you guys feel like doing nothing after a workday?

    Hmm be careful of that sleep less live more idea. Plenty of research showing it's a leading course of early death. Also research showing you can counteract by sleeping in on weekends
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    Wife found out Im RP aware.

    You never know what happens behind closed doors. I worked with him on a very high pressure project for a year. He was a very polite and mild mannered Englishman who I never saw crack out. He likes to live out in the country where it is quieter and his hobbies are listening to cricket on the...
  8. ubercat

    Treat women like children

    Great post by AS. It does pose an interesting challenge in the workplace where we ve given them way too much power. Corporate culture has been feminised. It's now ridiculously PC and socially herdy like a high school clique.
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    Wife found out Im RP aware.

    Be careful. My mates Mrs told a judge he was violent. Cops kicked him out of his own house one night no warning. And they froze their joint account. No evidence is required. She was after the apartment in town which she got. Once they ve decided to move on normally 6 months before they...
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    Wife found out Im RP aware.

    Yep every chick I was with who wanted to monkey branch started hitting the gym. I d start hiding cash and assets if you can.
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    Wife found out Im RP aware.

    And have a look on my back posts on LTRs. There's a lot you can do to nourish your relationship without growing a pvssy ass. Some of the old pua routines like making up stories together about people in the bar we're based on building the bubble. You do that more so in a marriage. That means...
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    Wife found out Im RP aware.

    All scholars are useless? where do you think science comes from? Every university in the world has joint ventures with industry. Anyway back on topic. Your wife has had a double shock because you are growing into a new area that she doesn't approve of and it goes against all the rules that...
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    Do we become more fearful as we get older?

    Not a lot of science support for T supplementation doing much. I d go with the natural methods lifting, more sleep, competitive sports first. It sounds counter intuitive obviously something in play we don't understand yet. Like the example where resveretrol from diet works but resveretrol...
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    Do we become more fearful as we get older?

    I wasn't concerned for you Rambo. Just young guys who could end up in the joint if they followed your unbalanced advice.
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    Do we become more fearful as we get older?

    I d say one slight modification to the excellent I can handle this mindset. I can handle this because I always do my best. And I learn and get even better. That's a confident learner/anti fragile mind set. It covers the situations where you don't win and it happens in life sometimes but you...
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    Do we become more fearful as we get older?

    Hmm people do get killed over small ****. I had a run in with a drugs guy at the bus stop recently. He was threatening to bash his woman there and I wasn't going to put up with that. It came to nothing much I just kept moving around him and maintaining arm's length distance. He tried to...
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    Do you guys feel like doing nothing after a workday?

    On a more serious note if that's how you feel after work you need a reset. ID suggest some hard physical exercise HIT followed by 10 minutes meditation. Then little bit of work on your purpose whatever it is. The key thing is to start if you want to read a book say I'm going to read a page and...
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    Do you guys feel like doing nothing after a workday?

    Haha my Asian gf always wants me to have a nap and says you work so hard you need it. Although at 5.5 years moved in I guess it's a ' I can't believe it's not a wife'. It seems like I live in a parallel universe compared to you USA guys. Not sure it will last forever but I'm sure as heck...
  19. ubercat

    Do I invite her over again?

    Geeze guys it was a line call. Op did well. I ve been balls deep a couple of times and they changed their mind. A lot of you guys are treating this like she s a pvssy vending machine the damned feels ain't that predictable. Only thing I would say to Op is I agree with the guys don't text...
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    Do I invite her over again?

    Unfortunately I don't know latinas but from what I've seen posted around here they quite like a bit of reassurance.
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