People get over excited on this topic. The point about PUA was it was a recipe got guys out there. Having game is the sauce not the meal. Anybody who s tried to help a clueless mate knows there s a big diff. But if the meal is spam don't expect the hot sauce to fool anyone.
@andreihaha ok get it. Yr making the normal moves. Yr post just sounded like u were playing up aloofness. I was genuinely curious as the aloof thing has never vworkef for me.
So @andreihaha curious - if you're saying keep cool on 1st date do you go for any kino, end of date kiss? And yea I'm pretty sceptical of that guitar guy. Sounded like those old letters to penthouse...so I'm minding my own business with a couple of beers on a Friday night and then these blond...
It's an interesting one. Kinda like texting. Positive if you're good. Deal breaker if your not.
On phone with this OLD chick and after a bit of the usual flirting I thought what the hell I d try the old what's the most adventurous thing you ve ever done. Of course you hope they say anal so...
Ah the old PUA beatup. Yes a lot of this stuff was scam and cringe. However there is a fair bit of science on how you shift the odds slightly in your favour. Over time that slight edge translates into a lot of puss.
I m not knocking cold approach. It's worth doing as Espi says just to make yourself rejection proof. But I don't ask midgets to win at hoops. OP was on what this guy could be doing better so all options r on the table. For a young guy I d say work on confidence and situational approach first...
One thing is when I ejected and said ...nice meeting I used to hold out my hand for the shake and hang on for half a second while smiling and keeping strong eye contact. PRACTICING good habits. Remember they can blow u off but they can't stop you using them for practice.
Probably not cool in...
IMO I wouldn't see it as mean. Girls r programmed to seek the best genetic material and secure resources. She doesn't have much choice. When some guy she thinks is below her level approaches she feels disgust and irritation.
I d suggest situational approach. Talk about something in the...
I d also add it's important to be strong functionally. Super hot day my hose attachment broke. So I started carrying big buckets of water. Killed my left arm. It will take me 3 months of light exercise to be able to lift again
Ok for the noobs since I ve got sucked into this zombie thread. Carnegie is good for absolute basics. If your out approaching your probably a bit past that. I d suggest people skills or the fine art of conversation as more relevant.
I think one of the best things I learnt here is ".. yea babe that sounds great your girlfriends would love that"
And if she pushes
Yea it really does sound great but I think it's more a girl thing
And then if she cracks it. (c'mon here with a hug)
You know I love spending time with u babe...
Your young a mistake we ve all made. Get on with your interests and purpose. Even with cohab girls date them don't hang out at them. If u can't think of anything else join a team sport and make some guy friends
I think a lot of 'red pill' men are prisoners of their raised expectations. We think that because we ve put the work in that accomplished yet humble and beautiful woman will appear. As the Op has found you may have built the best unicorn trap ever but your still hunting unicorns. If your an...
Greenes seduction laws should be pretty old news to anyone here.
Social proof
Push pull
Archetypes
I m a big fan of the 80/20 80% be busy and have a purpose. 20% be a bit different.
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