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Ordinarily, I'd say you were spot-on. My gf does call me Mr. Impossible To Read because I sometimes take being aloof and indifferent to an extreme. But I specifically told her a couple of times, without her asking, that she wasn't overstaying her welcome and that I really enjoyed having her...

I initially thought this was what she was saying, but I've told her in no uncertain terms that I will never live with a woman unless and until we're married.

With HB8 for the last 9 months. Two months ago, her dog died and she asks to stay at my place because she lives alone and was uncomfortable staying there by herself. HB8 and I essentially live together for two weeks. Exactly two weeks later, she tells me out of the blue that it's inconvenient...

I'm not really sure where I'm going with this, or why I'm posting this at all. I guess I'm just looking for guidance. The last three women I've dated were all hot, solid girls with low n-counts, the typical feminine behavior we all claim we want, and good character. This last one is as close...

Double if he told his gf that he's never told this to any other gf before. I'd recommend four days of no contact, and when she reads you the riot act about ignoring her, just use CH's line: "I thought you were different than all the other girls in this city." Then hang up. Dude needs to...

By stroke of (un)luck, I've been running into a lot of old plates lately while in the field. Most of them really don't like me. Usually they'll come up to me and initiate a conversation, or otherwise proximally linger in my vicinity until I acknowledge them on my own. I'm not going to be a...

I have a "one strike and you're out" philosophy to dating. If she's not willing to take two seconds to respond to a text, I'm not willing to give her an hour of my time. Her number was deleted as of yesterday when I concluded that my overeagerness killed this prospect. Live and learn. She...

You're wrong. If you saw me in the field, the last thing you'd think was that I was a beta. You're wrong again. Putting this girl on a pedestal may have killed me here, but I have three other girls in my queue who pretty much do whatever I want except for the occasional sh*t test because I'm...

Went to a bar a couple nights ago. One of my friends from grad school shows up with a bunch of her friends from work. Started talking to the hottest girl of the group. We end up sitting next to each other at a table for practically the whole night. Conversation is good, no real breaks or...

To recognize mistakes in my game when I can't figure them out on my own. Simple as that. That way, when an actual Good Girl comes along (and not one who flakes out when they don't get a text message response in the timely manner they desire, nor one who is flaky in the daylight but intentional...

I'm still trying to square this circle. If the proper attitude is to be aloof and indifferent, what point does it serve to jump as soon as these girls reach out? In any event, wouldn't it have been just as counterproductive to wait until it was convenient for me to set up a date with Girl B? I...

Let me see if I understand this correctly: Girls can arbitrarily take their time, hours or days in some instances, to respond to my text messages and calls - but when I do it, it's an error in my game? It makes me look like the bi*ch? And girls wonder why guys don't want to get married to...

Pulled numbers from two different girls I met while barhopping solo over the past month. GIRL A and I made out at the bar. Couple days later, we text back and forth and talked on the phone for half an hour (she called me first). 3/4's of the way through the call, she asks me if I "f*ck random...

Funnily enough, she texted me last night, apologized for the delay, and said things were "crazy" the last couple of days. She then gave me the full slate of her schedule for the work week without my asking (working during the days, busy on Thursday) and asked, "How about you?" Due to the...

I actually thought this was what was happening during the pickup. See below. What threw me off was all the garbage about wanting to see me again and blah blah blah, but it's not the first time I've had girls drop that line to justify going to bed with me the first night only to turn it off...

Good points, but I pushed for the lay and she stopped me. Told me we were going too fast. I froze out, then she went down on me. Does that change your analysis?

Solo'ed at a nightclub on Thursday. Direct opened a HB9 by asking her if the guy she was with was her boyfriend. She said it was her brother, her brother's girl came up, they paired off, and it was me and the HB9 for the rest of the night. She's 20. I'm 32. She didn't care about the age...

Thanks for the feedback. I gave it some thought and I'm going to next her. As I said above, I was 50-50 the whole way through, so there's no need to continue even if this is some sort of **** test. I imagine she'll reach out on Tuesday to either tell me she's busy or to say she's free. If...

Met a plate about a month ago through friends. We met up at a bar twice, and she's come to my house after both times. No sex because I can tell she likes me and doesn't want to come off as "that type of girl," but we made out a lot. We hung out at my house on Sunday and it was a good time...

...well, almost nothing. A lot of talk is made in the community about how to gauge a girl's interest level through text or what to say in those crucial interactions at the beginning to move from #-close to the date. Lately, I've been doing almost nothing. Indeed, a good strategy for...