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Q: You know how you can tell if a woman is faking her orgasms? A: Who cares? Plus, if she "orgasms with her whole body" and that means she p*sses all over my bed, that's a big NEXT in my book. But whatever. Eww. Also, did you actually read the link?

It happens. I've seen that there are a few circumstances under which this kind of thing goes on fairly regularly. And good on you, OP. Damn. My experience is that you need to generate the curiosity factor. More than anything. Be interesting. Don't tell her how interesting you are; let her...

"I'm an analyst for the NSA. I'm here to talk to you about your browsing history."

^^ Useless man.

Thanks, Motu. I'm a widower. When my wife got sick I made a choice as to the kind of life I was going to live once she was gone. It took a few years to do it all, but I did it. I run 25-30 miles a week. I got my teeth whitened. I lost about 30 lbs. I went back to school at night and got my...

Improve yourself until women chase you.

Whatever you get, get it tailored. Never wear a jacket or suit off the rack and for God's sake don't buy a sport jacket at Goodwill without earmarking $50 to have it tailored. $100 if it's a full suit. $100 in tailoring makes this much difference...

The thing about NYC is that it's a tough town, but everyone's in it together. There's a weird sense of community that arises from living in a ****ty, crazy place. Some people never understand that. I did a consulting gig in NYC for a few months and it took me a couple of weeks to get a handle on...

Allen Edmonds is the entry level handmade, lasted shoe. I think of J&M as a "gateway shoe." Like a gateway drug.

Yes, and no. Again, you're not trying to convince them that you have a private island and a fueled jet waiting. That way lies heartache; no one likes feeling duped. But a woman likes to know that you can do well with the money you have. How you dress yourself has a lot to do with your...

No. Square-toed Kenneth Coles = BAD SHOES. Women see your shoes as an IQ test, and if you bought these, you failed. Those CK's you linked to are borderline. A beginner's rule for shoes should be: IF A COMPANY PRIMARILY MAKES ANYTHING OTHER THAN SHOES, DON'T BUY THEIR SHOES. You can't...

^^^ This. And, for the dozenth time, key in on the difference, here, between ATTRACTING women and CHASING them. I have three FB's right now -- I had four but I just let one go because my schedule wouldn't support it -- and I have a "part-timer" in a sorority back east who bangs my brains out...

I am the wrong guy for that gig. I'm going on the road for six weeks starting this weekend, then the book comes out and the rest of the year will be book tours and speaking engagements. I've already tossed out nearly everything I know and what works for me may not work for you. I'll give the...

The problem with those shoes you posted is that they're clunky-looking. There's nothing streamlined or refined about them. I know Sperry made a billion dollars with the Top-Sider, but I hate the way they look. It's a driving loafer; a lightweight shoe not designed to be walked in except in and...

I'm a brown-shoe, brown-boot guy, so the belt has to match, and I like dark bluejeans rather than light. But those are aesthetic choices. Other than that, I'm with you. You can't lose with a collared shirt, a sportcoat (tie optional), nice shoes and a good tailor. Get a watch with hands on...

I should add, too: I don't make a lot of money. That's not what this is about. It's not about showing a girl that you have money. Hell, right now, I'm living off the advance for my book. And I don't dress like a millionaire. I don't peacock and I'm not rollin'. I do dress like a grown man. I...

Those rubber-soled, cheap leather pieces of crap shouldn't be in any grown man's wardrobe. (Edit: on second look, those Rockports are close. But you can do better for the money.) For that price range, $150-175, I found these on a quick search: Nordstrom Adrians. These are the dressiest of the...

We'd need a subforum for MM or professional dress, though. Because 20-year-old d@ouchebags would come in here telling us about hoodies and ballin' in trainers, yo. And then I would politely leave. Or, maybe, not so politely.

My pleasure. I have no idea where you'd learn that. Someone told me all that about ten years ago, and it changed my shoe buying habits and made my feet much happier. All my shoes are welted, now, except for my running shoes. 99% of the men in the world will never know what a "last" is or...

Absolutely. I talk about the mature man having to make his way in the world in order to attract women. This is a great example of carving out a corner of the world for yourself. (If you were living with your parents and delivering pizza at your age, I'd tell you to pull your head out.) There...