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    Is my mates advice right

    Holly Sh*t, you are basically chasing this girls and she loves the attention and not you. Why are you even wasting any brain power on her. A high value male (which looks like you are not from the context) asks a girl out once and keeps it moving. Almost 99% of guys act like you thus guys being...
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    She left me!

    You need to move on and find another girl. The only reason she left you is because you became weak. Do you think a girl that values a guy and his strength would ask for space. Her going through her so called "stress" is your excuse, you became needy thus her clam got dry. The more needy you were...
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    Had Online date first time ever and she cancelled

    I agree with leading and taking action but from what he said it sounds like she texted him the previous day and he didn't respond so she got insecure because she is probably use to guys blowing her up and when he asked her the next day if they were still on she became passive aggressive and blew...
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    Had Online date first time ever and she cancelled

    She did you a favor and she is very insecure and would be a headache to date. You are never going to find quality in online dating. Think for a moment and ask yourself of all of the quality girls you know do they need to do online dating, probably not because she has options in real life. Online...
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    I broke up a 2 year old relationship

    Do not beat yourself up dude 95% of girls are pretty much not relationship material. Your job is to weed out the crap to find the small percentage that is quality. The pros are that you learned this early and learned what too look out for in regards to red flags for your future relationships...
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    I broke up a 2 year old relationship

    She did you a favor. You thought she was the one, no she is a low character girl going behind your back and cheating on you. She will cheat on this new dude as well. Always put yourself first and be working on yourself.
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    When a girl texts you day after a date

    Reply to her message and tell her you had a good time as well and thats it. No texting back and forth. If you are free amd want to meet up again this weekend then ask her out of not figure out your schedule and reach out to her in a few days and ask her out again.
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    Women going for lesser men, interesting observations

    I know what you are going through as well. If you are an attractive man girls will pedalize you just like guys do to hot women and thus will usually reject themselves because they think you are too good for them or will cheat on them easily as you probably have girls throwing themselves at you...
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    Building Comfort but not Killing the Mystery?

    If its the first time you had sex with her you should have texted her or called her the next day and then went with the flow and set the next date. You have to remember every woman is insecure so give her a little to nibble on and then go back to setting and going on dates.
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    Anger will not subside... getting only worse

    You cannot control how other people treat you, you can only control how you allow others to treat you. Next time don't wast your time on a LDR, men who have real options do not waste their time on a pen pal. If you need a pen pal there are plenty of people on this forum you can be pen pals with...
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    Attraction is there so is effort yet no results

    Hey bud, Most people on this forum will not understand what you are going through thats why they will throw recommendations like you are not escalating fast enough or she is playing you so next her. Majority of girls are insecure and not confident at all...even the really attractive ones thus...
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    Communication level after sex

    What are you looking out of this? A relationship, fwb? If you are looking for a fwb keeping seeing her and banging and don't get feelings. If you are looking for a relationship, I would forget about it since she banged you after the first date. I guarantee she has issues and banged plenty of...
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    Texting than disappeared?

    Don't beat yourself up, most girls are flakey. They are especially flakey in online dating thats why it is a waste of time. Keep moving forward. Most guys have stopped asking girls out now and these chicks are remaining single into their 30s. You will notice some many girls single nowadays...
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    Texting than disappeared?

    Did you actually set concrete dates with them? For example, tell them "if something comes up let you know otherwise I will see you there," or something along those lines. Basically you should have indirectly told them you are going to be going on your dates guranteed and I will not be reaching...
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    Texting than disappeared?

    Your mind set needs to be different, when you see that cute girl in line you arent just going to ask her out right away just because she is cute...a man with option will think yeah she is cute and I am attracted to her but what else does she offer. So the man with options will start a...
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    At A Complete Loss...

    This lady knows her stuff, can I add the following: When a hot girls does ever meet a man like this she will likely feel intimidated by a guy like this because a guy of this caliber has attractive women throwing themselves at him all the time so he screens girls for other aspects besides her...
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    Getting Canceled On - But Why??

    Was not trying to offend you, I was just trying to help you get into the mind set of not caring what these girls do or don't do with you. There is no way to even try to figure out what is going on in her flakey little mind...most likely nothing. You can thank social media for the behavior these...
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    Getting Canceled On - But Why??

    Hey look at it this way at least she contacted you and canceled the date instead of flaking, she has enough character to do that. You can't expect a girl to drop everything she is doing because you asked her on a date nor should you drop everything because some girl reached out to you. She...
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    Texting Frequency with new chicks

    Quit this texting back and forth all day crap, she is not your girlfriend. You should be setting the date. If she is texting you first her interest level must be high as hell but most likely she is an emotional train wreck due to her divorce and is looking for a quick emotional fix so be careful...
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    Getting Canceled On - But Why??

    Who knows and who cares why she cancelled...maybe her goat died, when she asked you can we reschedule you should have asked her "sure, what day works for you" and then set the date again. If she cancels again who cares. Most of these girls on online dating will act like so many men want them...
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