The funny thing with this is a lot of people think that being good looking and high status will get you almost any girl. Sure most girls will be attracted to you on all levels but once you reach a certain level most girls will be to insecure to want to actually date you thus leaving you only the...
Don't do this, never bring yourself down to other peoples level. You are doing fine dude. The mindset you need to have is you have no leagues...when you interact with a girl she is not better or worse than you and vice versa you are not better or worse than her. When you become comfortable with...
I use to be like you as I started to question myself because I started having these weird interactions with girls where they would basically treat me like they would a guy they don't like but their eyes and body language was telling me otherwise. As I got older my confidence grew as I became...
Really attractive men will have a hard time dating and getting into a relationship with a girl, just as some hot girls have trouble. A lot of it comes down to insecurities on their end...it does start to suck if you are looking for a real connection rather than just getting laid.
I get the same...
I am a pretty busy guy so I don't do same day appointments and I like to set a specific time and place prior. You need to convey yourself to her as a high value male. Do not wait until the day of the date or she ia definitely going to flake again. Reach out to her and tell her you are tied up...
Does not look like you set a definite date. All you said is Wednesday. Shoot her a text and tell her to come over at 7pm as you will be making dinner. Tell her to bring her favorite desert.
If she does not confirm the time do not reach out again ever. If she confirms the time tell her perfect...
Did you friend request her initially? I dont understand why guys friend request girls in the first place if you are interested in smashing her...stop doing that. It is her job to friend request you and follow you.
My advice do not do anything. Just move on with your life and find a hotter...
First off...she did not flake. A flake is someone who does not show up after they said they would. She canceled a date...no big deal as people have lives and **** happens. Wait a couple of weeks and then reach out and ask her out. Anything but a yes you move on...another cancel you move on...
You did the right thing...she wanted a same day date and you said no. She probably got butt hurt because she has probably never had a guy say no so thus she put that bs in your face. Dont worry...remain cool...just tell her to hit you up when she wants to have fun and not deal with drama. Do not...
Basically you threw up your feelings on her and she got scared and said she had another call.
Let her reach out amd change your attitude. No texting back and forth. If and when she reaches out tell her to come to your place for wine, food, and a movie...nothing else needs to be said. If she...
Paradox you did fine. Do not over think it. You had a good date, reached out a week later to setup another date which showed assertiveness which is good. She did not bite on it so you left the ball in her court. Do not reach out again, let her reach out. She will reach out to you within 1-4...
Come on dude where are your balls....stop letting this
attention who*** string you along. She sees you as her fan and not someone she wants to smash.
You are msking her lose attraction if she had any. You said you are out of her league the way you are acting it seems she is out od your league...
Come on man...you need to really work on yourself. You are letting a piece of a$$ get you all worked up for no reason. She should be chasing you and a relationship not the other way around. You need to start a business or find something that occupies your mind man that makes you a better person...
Yep...this is the point I was trying to make as well. This is also a teaching forum, so the point I was trying to make is dont text broads pointless crap once you have made a date or you just come off thirsty even though you think you dont. These dumb bimbos think differently than us. I was not...
Just curious...why did you text this girl something stupid after you had a date set already and you had banged on the first date. The power was is your hands.
Your neediness got in the way and you were excited because she is "hot" so you texted her. She may have gotten turned off by your dumb...
I agree that major disrespect like cheating or not showing up for a date is a next but look at his interaction she was fully responsive and she even set the date for Friday. He then decided to do something dumb and send a stupid text after...why? From her point of view she has seen this before...
Like I said EGO...trust me my son I have plenty of options but I do not need to show people that I have options or broadcast that I have options thats when you know you have options. Dating is a game...the best player wins...always.
You are not trying to wife her up so who cares. The best...
This is a simple case where your ego got in the way. Guys need to realize that girls are going to test you all the time if she is attracted to you...which she was because you banged. If you were one of her orbitors or loser guy friends she will not test you... which one would you rather be...
Chill chill buddy or you are going to mess it up. Someone with your experience usually does what you are doing and blows it up. Do the following:
1. Find a purpose or hobby in your life and focus on it 100%. Girls should not even be in your thoughts.
2. Keep doing what you are doing with this...
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