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Yes those women. And don't lie to anyone but don't get in a relationship.

OP you're approaching your question like a man would. You're looking for a woman who doesn't want a relationship. But sex is almost always an advance payment on a possible relationship. Even women out for a one nighter are choosing men they'd choose for a relationship. So quit worrying about...

It is a huge turn off. Ironically I would have found it much easier if she'd responded with what this site preaches "OK". The dynamics seem to be reversed though, where me breaking off things with her I actually feel some bear minimum of responsibility for another person. Whereas a woman...

Well at fifty years old you get to break some rules don't you? I went back online,met three women. One stealth photo taker heavier than her photos, one low interest, and one that seemed great. First date with Jen, went out for lunch. Great date, conversation flowed and had a really good...

Who says you're unworthy of the money? You do? The universe says otherwise. 1. Get some help with the business now so you don't burn out. 2. Don't ever go near drugs again. 3. Ask yourself what you believe in. What do you want in five years. Do it in four. 4. Take one day a week off. I mean OFF...

Without adding more details, yes some of the additional things you guys mentioned were present. Bottom line, I'm out. And relieved. Whatever that pathology was I have never seen anything like it.

So I got dumped this week after four months. Actually I was hoping to get dumped. Making my own exit after learning more and more about this woman was looking like it could be a real problem. For research purposes, you tell me...was this a BPD? Or just a narcissist? Things I know. Fast and...

So I went on with life... And then two days ago a DIFFERENT woman that I dated three months ago texts me. After saying LJBF in June, she says she thinks about me every day. Now I'm not dumb enough to respond to either woman. But what do I look like? King of the beta males? The pandemic must...

We dated for about six months after my wife split. As expected I was as blue pill as they come. It grenaded on me. I see that chapter of my life as closed. There's no reason to dig up old memories for her or me. I don't have a specific question. If I did it would be "why do you guys always have...

So I'm living the high life during the pandemic. Women like a guy that can shoot and has a pallet of canned goods in the basement. I'm doing exactly what I want these days. Working on my own goals. I work in a car dealership, on commission. I do really well. Recently I had someone in that I...

Dear Sandy, please attend a sex addiction workshop at my house this Friday. Bring wine.

So this question isn't really about dating, but maybe it's related. I work in sales, dealing with the public. Usually I'm top dog. My sales outpace 90% of my peers. Occasionally though I find a Karen. For example, this week I did a transaction for a middle aged single woman. Post wall, lives in...

Just wondering if those currently doing OLD are seeing the long awaited rush of women trying to satisfy urges now that quaruntine is ending? I've been offline for a few months, if I see my shadow I'm staying offline for another six weeks.

It's nothing to do with court. Tell his wife. He fvcked up your life. Shots fired. You gonna let that go?

Mrgoodstuff gave you great advice. And yes there's a virtual certainty that they got physical if he has her looking at lingerie. He wants to dress up the trophy now. A couple more things. I was in your shoes ten years ago. I know how you feel. Buckle up kid, it's going to be a war. Do you have...

Thanks Stormrider, I just read your post like 7x. You gave me a lot to think about and writing 1200 words to help out a complete stranger speaks volumes about your character.. I appreciate the effort from all you guys. You're right my posts aren't really complete. I didn't really get into why I...

So an update for anybody following. I gave it some time, and decided to circle around. I agree with "ok", and have used that a lot. But I rationalized too much and thought I'd send a two liner trying to coax her into talking. That was 48 hrs ago. No answer. Yes I know against the playbook. So...

Thanks very much for the advice. I'm going to give it a week and then maybe hit her up. Not sure how, and a week to think will probably change my mind. This should be a home run. She SHOULD be doing the work here. I'm going to vent here because I can't anywhere else. No one in real life would...

Rick you're not wrong. But three weeks ago life was pretty normal.

You need to be a rock. Not affected by her, not judging her. Don't catch feelings, you and an army of professionals can't fix her. She's broken. Enjoy it for what it is but your turn will end. In a month or in ten years. It will end. The only question is will you get hurt by the blast. My gut...