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  1. Dr. Reed

    How much does lifting affect getting girls?

    Training should be one of the most important things in your life. Don't lift to get women, I do it for myself. Of course it makes a big difference. Would you want a woman who is inactive? The pic is me, 22 years ago. I don't look that lean anymore, but I train 6 days a week and love it. I...
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    Opening from last night

    Hey guys: Is this thread OK here, or should it go elsewhere? If you need to move it, mods, please do so Here is a recent example of an open. I get at least 3-4 of these a week. I still open women. All day every day. Yes, I am married. No, I have never cheated on my wife. Why do I open...
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    Intro to my book, The Toolbox

    page 6 Sorry guys, my growth chart did not survive the cut and paste....you should be able to figure things out without it. While realizing that traditional psychology offers very little if you are looking for love, it is strong when it comes to communication. Just keep in mind that if a...
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    Woman asked me how come I never texted her when I got home from our date.

    You must always always have at least two plates. You must always be opening new women and number closing. OP...how many women are you opening a day? At least 3, I hope. You should be number closing at least one, preferably 2. Out of those two you should at least be getting at least one date a...
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    Intro to my book, The Toolbox

    My wife works a lot of hours, she supervises a large medical facility. She is getting promoted soon. She either cooks for me every night, or buys me dinner. High end Sushi, Italian. She will drop $100 on dinner with regularity. She has someone clean the house every week, and she pays for it. I...
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    article: Will Darwinism Kill Feminism?

    Here is an edited version. EP is the shizzo https://www.sciencedaily.com/terms/evolutionary_psychology.htm
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    article: Will Darwinism Kill Feminism?

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolutionary_psychology The application of Darwinian principles to human behavior is EP. My Ph.D is not in EP (wasn't a field back then) but my new book is based upon the principles of EP. Absolutely brilliant discipline!
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    Intro to my book, The Toolbox

    Yes, it is all about the skill. There are also techniques like what I term "the venue change," that make a women think that she has put in more time towards the relationship than she has, in reality. Probably the biggest advantage that my system has is that I am not pursuing sex. I want an LTR...
  9. Dr. Reed

    More Young Men Giving Up On Marriage Because Women Aren't Women Anymore

    The primary daily maintenance rotates around the different operational paradigms of men and women. As stated above, women are process oriented. At the end of a day, women want to talk about their day. Women process their feelings and make decisions via their discussions. Talking is their way of...
  10. Dr. Reed

    Intro to my book, The Toolbox

    What makes you think these women are sluts? These are women competing for you. They all want an LTR/Marriage. When women love you they have sex with you. These are all very high quality women. Surely you are not suggesting that my wife is a slut. I had Dr's, PhD's, MBA's, Nurses. Several were...
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    Intro to my book, The Toolbox

    At your age (43) I was managing a 3 women rotation of gals who were very high quality and want an LTR with me. I had a Tue/Thurs/Sat schedule, the sex was amazing. I finally committed to my wife. My general advice to men is to stay single until they are 35 or older. Keep in mind, I only...
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    Intro to my book, The Toolbox

    Pair Bonding is a well established fact/theory. Pair bonding is necessary from an Evolutionary standpoint. Women with small children are very much at risk. Romantic love lasts from one to 3 years, a time of tremendous vulnerability as children this age have absolutely no ability to take care of...
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    More Young Men Giving Up On Marriage Because Women Aren't Women Anymore

    No, it was you. I thought you were over 40. I know it was not mistress, I was responding to the claim it was your mistress. I mentioned you because you match perfectly my Successful male opt out paradigm. In fact I coined the term after I interviewed you. Remember, the bunch of questions I...
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    Woman asked me how come I never texted her when I got home from our date.

    Text back, say sorry you are busy this weekend. If she counteroffers fine. This women does not look like a very good prospect, IMO. How many other women are you dating? How many numbers are you getting? Why are you seeing her on Friday? I never date my best prospects on the weekend.
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    Woman asked me how come I never texted her when I got home from our date.

    Ignore her inquiry, do not engage a discussion on the topic. I never text/call the next day unless I just had sex with her. Just wait a gfew days, call her, ask her out if she says yes, date her, no throw her number away. It seems she has high interest if she is worried about your call. She...
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    More Young Men Giving Up On Marriage Because Women Aren't Women Anymore

    Structured openers? Like JGF? Or a longer theoretical discussion of opening/mindset, etc.? I cover that in my book. The key is to recognize that feeling like fear and anxiety are chemical and structurally designed into the brain. I use techniques and systematic applications of tools to deal with...
  17. Dr. Reed

    PART I - INTERNAL GAME

    Meditation is a great way to strengthen your inner game. It will give you focus, clarity, and the ability tio not be bothered by BS. MRI also proves it physically changes your brain structure in a good way.
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    Intro to my book, The Toolbox

    You are absolutely correct, sir. Self improvement is at the core of success. I have a full chapter in my book devoted to body building, another full chapter to martuial art training, and another full chapter to developing your mind, emotions, and spirit. Having said that, there is nothing wrong...
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    You Either F*cked her or you Didn't

    So, I spend twenty years of my life perfecting my dating and love system. Spent another 8 years getting my PhD. I leave my college teaching job, in part to write my book. A unique science based book that blends Evolutionary Psychology, Rational Choice Modeling, Neuroscience, and the best...
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