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Are you serious? Are you just making this up? Sometimes I'm fairly sure you just make these encounters up for ego purposes. If all these "cute" and "decent looking" girls are "all over you immediately", why don't you stop whinging and actually try dating one? Or at least having sex with one...

From what I read, it sounds like she lost respect for you and probably cheated too, even if the PI couldn't find anything after the fact. The sudden downturn in sex frequency and simultaneous loss of empathy for you...loss of passion, combined with outsourcing sex somewhere else, most likely...

Give her the email address, wait for the transaction to complete and then say "Do you want my number too? It doesn't have to be for work."

WTF. I read the whole post up to this point and was just shaking my head the entire time. I'm sorry if this causes offence, but she sounds like a crazy psycho b*tch and I think your mistake was going to marriage level relationship with her in the first place. What you are describing here is...

Hahaha no, dead serious. I'm good with the preliminary stages of dating and getting plates started, but pretty much cursed when it comes to sealing the deal. Last serious GF I had was a year ago. She was the one that caught herpes 2 weeks before we met, so no sex, broke up. Every other girl I...

In all seriousness, silliness from me aside, do different positions actually change the sensation/experience? Given my lack of experience in this area at present I genuinely don't know. Is it just an aesthetic choice or is there a reasoning behind it? Apparently girl on top is the most...

To really set the scene, I like to drink a dram of whiskey, sigh heavily and then mumble "Let's get it over with."

So you've said before you don't want casual, but you hate how women look after 25-26...how do you expect to hold down a marriage then? Or have kids, like you previously mentioned? This is another contradiction. Well, I'm not seeing this attitude here, I'm seeing the opposite - too much...

Missionary only, minimal foreplay, minimal duration, minimal noise. ;)

Yeah what I learned from my last PoF date is that you should check out the venue before you go there and assess whether it's good for cultivating an intimate atmosphere and so on. It's surprising how much of a difference that can make. Last PoF date I had was at a really nice pub with good...

Hold onto this next time in the future when you think of making a similar move and f*cking things up. It's very easy to make bad mistakes when you're not thinking of the consequences. When you think of what you stand to lose, you tend to listen more to the rational part of your brain. I think...

Here's the thing: self-confidence is powerful, but your ultimate worth is dictated by actions, not words. Self-confidence in absence of affirmative evidence is self delusion, even narcissism if it's extreme enough. Would you want to hire someone who just talks about how great they are at their...

Dave you're still not seeing the problem, dude. 1. All of your threads...ALL of them...you're saying "I deserve the best GF ever". Your first sentence is a delusional OPPOSITE of what your problem is. Your problem is over analysing, overvaluing yourself and undervaluing the women around you...

Indeed, maybe that is a Brit thing. The only time I'd ever want a debt is if I'm just starting a business, and it's the very first loan I needed for it or something like that. That's the only type of debt I'd wilfully get into, and only if I'd established a very rigorous plan for how I'm going...

I'm sorry to hear about your situation, it sounds like you're in quite a bit of emotional pain. Are things 100% done with your girlfriend? It's a slim shot, but if you could sit down with her and explain fully that it was just a stupid mistake, perhaps she will forgive you. If you tell her that...

Mate this is like the 1,000th thread with the exact same inquiry, the exact same replies and you're asking the exact same questions. As I've said a bunch of times - the "X/10" rating system is completely arbitrary. Chicks you consider "7/10" might be girls I think are "5/10" or girls I think...

Very affectionate here, but it takes me a long time to open up to that. I'm very guarded because once you start giving affection, it's easy for someone to screw you over or cut you deep if they're not trustworthy. So if I've just been on a date or two and don't really know her, I'll be quite...

I actually considered this with my herpes GF. Then I realised that jumping up after sex and rubbing my crotch with disinfectant is something of a mood killer, not to mention rather rude and traumatic for her, lol.

Exactly this. And putting that burden on a partner for the sake of c*mming harder on a ONS blows my mind. I think there are valid reasons for going bareback posted here, but I think it's certainly more responsible in an LTR. Heck, sticking to the same girl for 3 months at a time, even. It's...

That's insanely lucky then, because something like 1 in 6 or 1 in 5 women have herpes - not even counting other STIs. You probably have it but have just never shown symptoms. Some STIs are asymptomatic, and it's pretty implausible to go bareback with 250 women and not get anything. In fact...