About 6 months when we split she was still in contact with me - i didnt like it and told her that in a nice way to leave me alone, that i wasnt interested in being her friend and that if we kept in contact we would only end up resenting eachother.
Fast forward to last month - she phones me...
it would be good to hook up with her but if we are both going to play games with eachother then ther's no point.
NOTE to all peeps going through the NC motion heartbroken over a girl.
keep it up...I was in a **** place over this girl once upon a time - now look!
if was me, after months without talking with her she calls me and tells that over the phone I would just say, ok, turn off the phone and run fast from her
GOOD ****ing question yo! Perhaps its me who needs to sort my **** out rather then her
Pools been pissed in i guess - NC goes on
Kept is as cool as possoble was a bit shocked cos i didnt have her number and thought it was a different chick blowing up my phone, i was at a house party at the time.
She told me she wanted to see me but couldnt for a while as she was working over weekend and then on holiday next week.
No...
So basically seeing some chick six months back - things died down she went a bit distant from then onwards i went completely NC and got on with ****.
Fast forward to last weekend..call out of the blue on a sat night telling me how she loves me and that she cant stop thinking about me bla bla...
I was meant to meet her a couple of days back but i had to bail due to work commitments, I re-arranged there and then with the only day i had free (which is wednesday). I could do the weekend but thought against that idea..
She's a beautiful looking girl with a good job and family behind her...
Seems interested, replying back to texts and opening conversations herself. Ive kept myself distant by taking time to reply and trying to keep myself as much of a mystery as possible. Though its been brief i still feel like we have been speaking by text too much..
Anyway last night got the date...
Thanks for the replies man!
I think the thing that really stuck out for me to write here was how useless I was last weekend.
I went to a popular music festival with some family and friends, It got to the point where I couldn't even interact with family members that well unless it was talking...
Come to think of it, id say technology has a huge impact on my life, One that does raise concern for myself is how much porn I watch on the internet. Could this have an effect on my mentality and the way I interact with women (at the moment its terrible)
I do use facebook and instagram a bit...
I was made redundant from my job around 4 months ago, I have not been able to find a positive job since - I've had a few interviews but nothing mega, currently working at Starbucks coffee!
Due to loosing my job I had to move back in with my parents - Its bearable but its definitely somewhere...
Does anybody on this site have any information they can pass on with good advice on how to deal with the above. It has got to the point now where I'm really beginning to notice this and its starting to bug me the **** out.
I have never had problems with this in the past, one of the things I...
Golden advice man, seriously! Many thanks for taking the time to reply. You are correct in everything you say and I can see your point in changing my mind-set or otherwise set myself up to a similar situation in the future (with a different plate).
I will follow your advice and I will not be...
I am a regular to the gym and i would say in the best shape i have ever been in, training for my first marathon and have now moved to a completely different area where there are more job opportunities. I'd agree that i am an idiot for letting it go this far and being walked all over - she has...
lolz and total BS! she tried to contact me through facebook on three separate occasions telling me that she needed to speak to me, i blocked her on there and also blocked her mobile number. She still managed to ring my two good friends one night asking to speak to me - they also ignored her. The...
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