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    Advice on how to play it after successful first date

    haha keep the fingers in many pies, i see. Overthinking can get you into more trouble then its worth, ill get in touch with a few other squeezes and see what there plans are this week
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    Advice on how to play it after successful first date

    Went real well, got on great. Loads of kissing through the night. Had to boot after about 3 hours as was working a night shift. My question to you lot is how you play from here on. Wait for her to contact me and set up the next date when she does?
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    1st date advice

    So yeah in a nutshell met this chick about 3 weeks ago at a bar. First time we met but we have mutual friends. We hit it off real well that night great eye contact, touching eachother alot and at the end of the night asked me if she could wear my jacket, which of course she did. A few of us...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    DAY 2 Today has been a bit harder im currently working night shifts so when i wake up around 3pm i tend to sit around waiting to start work at 10pm. I always seem to catch cabin fever when working nights. She has been on my mind alot today just general thoughts but feel like ive dealt with...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yo European DJ thanks for the reply - where can i find these posts from Jariel? can you link them.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    DAY 1 After numerous times of trying to fix things today is the day that i man up to the situation and finish it for good. Although we had a good relationship at times the bad always outweighed the good. She has been through some hard times these last few months - losing her job one of them. I...
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    advice needed on GF please

    straight up!!! Ive come here looking for answers i already know the answer to im kinda at the end of my cord already - she adding the final pieces to the puzzle! i knew i messed up by letting her move in, my own fault! Felt sorry for her i guess, same reason why im still with her
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    advice needed on GF please

    ok so basically could do with some advice pretty quick. Im pissed off and that is an understatement... im on a night shift right now in England - My GF who has literally just moved in with me - i live in a room as part of a house share. She has been out tonight drinking with her friend she has...
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    Finding the right balance between GF/ME time

    Ive noticed in the last couple of weeks im spending too much time with my girlfriend. I currently live in a house share and she has stayed round the every night, last night was the first night in a long time where i finished work and just had time by myself (it felt good Even though i love her...
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    3 months with the GF and already thinking whats the point?!

    Although i disagree i understand what you are saying. I have been with chicks in the past and the last thing on my mind is a relationship, i know the value of my time and how much i am worth as a person. I know that no matter what in life the only person to make myself happy is me, so to say...
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    3 months with the GF and already thinking whats the point?!

    Had like 10 missed calls and a text off her today. She was concerned that i hadnt contacted her etc etc. She even called my mom to find out where i was! I have just answered her call again told her i was fine and hope you are too, she tried to pick another fight but i just brushed it off and...
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    3 months with the GF and already thinking whats the point?!

    Thanks for this, There are alot of things on that list that i really need to start doing! I have completely lost my centre and who i really am for this girl - this is my fault i know. I have no real intrest in speaking to her right now, nothing will be gained from it and i can see things getting...
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    3 months with the GF and already thinking whats the point?!

    100% RED FLAGS - They're everywhere! Tests i can handle but not every single day man, im tired of it! I cant see things getting better she has alot of issues and they always seem to come out when shes had a drink! I dont deserve to be treated like this and i wont put up with it anymore, We...
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    3 months with the GF and already thinking whats the point?!

    The start of the relationship was great but we definetly became exclusive too early! I coul'nt of asked for a better start to be honest, very affectionate and loving, goregeous looking dresses well with a good job and not interested in going out partying all the time. I honestly could see myself...
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    got the number, arranged the date - advice from here!

    Met this beautiful chick the other weekend got her number, she appeared to show intrest playing with her hair and laughing. Messaged her a day later and got into a good conversation but kept it brief. I have been busy with work and been on a few other dates - she has initated contact every time...
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    girl flaked on me - showed indifference but she keeps in contact, where to go from here?

    I dont actaully think she is interested in me like she says...All i am to her is a back up/second option She bailed on me sunday to go out with her mates instead, then when she is at home alone and feeling down for drinking too much or what ever she picks up the phone to get some attention off...
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    girl flaked on me - showed indifference but she keeps in contact, where to go from here?

    I must make it clear that this girl was my ex gf of two years - She has been in a relationship after ours but still ends up coming back to me admitting she misses me, loves me bla bla bla. To be honest im ****ing done with it, im exhausted by it all - I told her 3/4 months ago that i didnt want...
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    girl flaked on me - showed indifference but she keeps in contact, where to go from here?

    I am ready to move on i just want to do it in a way that my head is held high and i don't look like a chump!
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    girl flaked on me - showed indifference but she keeps in contact, where to go from here?

    I do want to be that honest though - i have had enough now, it shouldn't be this hard! She has been like this in the past, I just feel that if i react to her flakiness then its counter productive. Part of me doesn't want to giver her the satisfaction of my reaction
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    girl flaked on me - showed indifference but she keeps in contact, where to go from here?

    Ok so I arranged to meet her Sunday but she text me in the morning saying she didn’t think she could make it in time as her mate had broke her wrist moving house – I knew this to be some bull**** excuse so acted indifferent and didn’t react to it just said don’t worry about it – her reply was...
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