So basically I was at her place this morning. She's making coffee I'm sitting at the table with my phone.
She hands me the coffee and sees my phone on the table and grabs it and runs towards the bathroom. I'm like give me my phone through the door. She's giggling....
I walk back to the table.
2...
Something's up....doesn't matter anyway...I'm going NC.
All I can think of, is that I withdrew the sweet words after a discussion I didn't like and I have yet to return to that. She probably feels sad or something...even subconsciously....maybe rejected and she's lashing out.
I know she gets a...
No bro....just wanted to waste my time.
Not angry....just put off.
I'll put it this way....I call...she says....what....I say...whoa....who am I....that's no way to answer my call....she hangs up. I call back...no answer....
Now I don't feel like giving her the time of day on her bday.
Here's the thing....
I called her today...she answers with "speak..."
I'm like...are you my secretary?
How about you answer with "hello"
Or "hi, what's up"
That's not a very nice way to answer the phone....she hangs up.
Whatever...time of the month, stress, puppy got run over....who knows...
Her...
I think "keeping your frame" is like talking to your mother.
She will pull, push, and twist you to what college you should go to ...what shirt to wear...go to a family cookout....etc...
Can't force you .....but that little bit silent voice that sounds like nagging/ love....
You learned this...
.....so she added me or unblocked me on Whatsapp....
I said nice talking to you.
....Whatsapp says she's online....and I got nothing from her.
So yea....that should confirm all our beliefs....
And I didn't even ask for this to happen.
There are so many women out there. Take your pick.
And there are so many guys.
Why would a girl care to bother with you over and over.
And why would a girl care to give you the time of day..
Thing is....why I wrote this topic...
I kinda don't want to re-live the same time together....at least not the bad parts.
I do like her a lot....but I feel de-valued....which I am not....if I were to run into her on the streets...I'd be happy to talk...but I know she can have her way with me...
I don't know why she would want to see me.
In the text I asked her what prompted this reaching out after 2 months of her blocking me.
She said....hehehehe
And asked me if my alcohol consumption got under control.
Like....no.....I'm still partying just as hard if not harder lol.
I didn't say...
P.s.
I have a decent job and make good enough money....but life is short and I'm enjoying it.
Got two female room mates I'm staying in their spare room. They cook. I wash dishes if I see them dirty in the sink.
Yea....I erased the text and number. But I have it memorized. We dated. Shyt went sideways.
She blocked me. I took the L.
She always complained about my partying and not having a job.
I won a settlement in Court and have a little cash where I don't have to work for the moment.
Just wanted to...
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