Girl texts after 2 months

[_sideways_]

I probably already know the answers....
But the text was super casual.
Hello.
How's work?
Still partying?
Nice chatting. Have a good afternoon.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I always assume these women are in some situation where she needs to pretend to be on her phone or is looking to be entertained while doing something... "We can talk over coffee." you should of responded with, immediately get your face time in, give her no attention or validation otherwise, just compliance.

 

[IKO69]

Who knows what happened in the interim

Honestly what I would do is chat her up but don't make her a priority. She probably expects you'll drop everything to talk and give her all your attention. You have to show her she aint ****...and I don't mean put on an act. You have to come 1st.

 

[_sideways_]

Yea....I erased the text and number. But I have it memorized. We dated. Shyt went sideways.
She blocked me. I took the L.
She always complained about my partying and not having a job.
I won a settlement in Court and have a little cash where I don't have to work for the moment.
Just wanted to talk it out with some friends in here. Thanks boyz

 

[_sideways_]

P.s.
I have a decent job and make good enough money....but life is short and I'm enjoying it.
Got two female room mates I'm staying in their spare room. They cook. I wash dishes if I see them dirty in the sink.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Assume she wants to see you and act accordingly.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Assume she wants to see you and act accordingly.

I agree. I’ve wondered in such situations tho do you make it somewhat difficult for her to gain your approval again? Like she has to prove herself to you or be really good in bed or whatnot? Or do you just pick things up as if nothing has happened?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I agree. I’ve wondered in such situations tho do you make it somewhat difficult for her to gain your approval again? Like she has to prove herself to you or be really good in bed or whatnot? Or do you just pick things up as if nothing has happened?

Just simply say something like "So I assume you are interested in getting together?"

 

[SargeMaximus]

Just simply say something like "So I assume you are interested in getting together?"

Ok thanks

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Ok thanks

Anything other than an enthusiastic yes and she is just wasting your time

 

[SargeMaximus]

Anything other than an enthusiastic yes and she is just wasting your time

Noted. I like the idea of forcing a girls hand

 

[_sideways_]

I don't know why she would want to see me.
In the text I asked her what prompted this reaching out after 2 months of her blocking me.
She said....hehehehe
And asked me if my alcohol consumption got under control.
Like....no.....I'm still partying just as hard if not harder lol.
I didn't say that....but it was a little off putting. And rude to send 5 or 6 text sentences and none of them was like....how's your mental health...still jogging....
She wasn't always lovey dovey on text...but now I'm just making excuses for her behavior that I don't know if I like.

Guess I'll never know. Just like I'll never know how many licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop.

Anyways guys...thanks for not bashing me.
It's hard for me to assume she wants to see me again. Doesn't compute.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I don't know why she would want to see me.
In the text I asked her what prompted this reaching out after 2 months of her blocking me.
She said....hehehehe
And asked me if my alcohol consumption got under control.
Like....no.....I'm still partying just as hard if not harder lol.
I didn't say that....but it was a little off putting. And rude to send 5 or 6 text sentences and none of them was like....how's your mental health...still jogging....
She wasn't always lovey dovey on text...but now I'm just making excuses for her behavior that I don't know if I like.

Guess I'll never know. Just like I'll never know how many licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop.

Anyways guys...thanks for not bashing me.
It's hard for me to assume she wants to see me again. Doesn't compute.

This gets significantly easier overtime

 

[_sideways_]

This gets significantly easier overtime

What does?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I don't know why she would want to see me.
In the text I asked her what prompted this reaching out after 2 months of her blocking me.
She said....hehehehe
And asked me if my alcohol consumption got under control.
Like....no.....I'm still partying just as hard if not harder lol.
I didn't say that....but it was a little off putting. And rude to send 5 or 6 text sentences and none of them was like....how's your mental health...still jogging....
She wasn't always lovey dovey on text...but now I'm just making excuses for her behavior that I don't know if I like.

Guess I'll never know. Just like I'll never know how many licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop.

Anyways guys...thanks for not bashing me.
It's hard for me to assume she wants to see me again. Doesn't compute.

You are trying to think logically about why a woman does something. It will never make sense to you. Just assume a woman reaching out to you wants to see you and act accordingly.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

What does?

Women and their games

 

[RBK]

She pulled the old boomerang on you, invite her out or to your place. Anything but a yes is she's looking to pick up another orbiter.

 

[IKO69]

Assume she wants to see you and act accordingly.

Yes, but he shouldn't go all in. This would prove fatal because it is likely what she is used to/expects. That's what all the guys do. It won't be long before it goes back to the same old.

He should make her work for it. Not because it is a "cool sounding strategy" but simply out of principle. I am assuming she ignored/left him hanging. She has to try harder.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yes, but he shouldn't go all in. This would prove fatal because it is likely what she is used to/expects. That's what all the guys do. It won't be long before it goes back to the same old.

He should make her work for it. Not because it is a "cool sounding strategy" but simply out of principle. I am assuming she ignored/left him hanging. She has to try harder.

Just invite her over to cook dinner and tell her to bring a bottle of wine. Either she is in or out. No wasted time on your part.

As @DEEZEDBRAH would say, Comply or Bye

 

[Dash Riprock]

It's likely a breadcrumb; she's bored, got dumped, dumped a guy, and sent messages to a few old flames--like a text message marketing campaign. Nothing to lose if you reply and ask her over--but make HER come to you. Bounce if she gets flaky, etc. I'd also take 2-3 days to text her back.

Good luck. Keep us posted. This happens a lot to guys.