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Sounds good. One problem I have is a lousy conversion rate. Flakes, ghosts. So my idea to fix that is to build a stronger relationship initially. I don't know if it's the best strategy. Roosh V's book Day Bang recommends this, talks about rambling in day game: "Rambling is the term I use to...

I'm the opposite. I'm tired of elaboration, I just want to cuddle and have sex, etc. But what builds connection might be complex even though the resulting connection is simple.

Go to university or art school guys :)

Well, sometimes it is also combined with the ambition to reach that point. For instance, overcoming approach anxiety isn't joyful. Also, (cold) approaching can be a bit tedious, it's not like you know that an interaction will be good, she just looks good, that's all you know. Many here...

Self confidence is a problem for me, in my game, probably. I have a draught and it's likely because of this. The only way to solve it is too raise my confidence by boot strapping, not through external validation by girl(s), since that won't happen due to the lack of confidence (catch 22). It's...

Naw. On my birthday a date for 4-5 months sent me flowers. Muslim girl. The problem here is that as far as she's stretched is sending a picture of her hair, and she can't visit me due to her mother, and sex is probably anyway out of the question. Our relationship went cold a month ago, and she...

Self confidence is that thing that is brought up over and over again, particular within game, rightfully. Confidence comes from within, but that inner voice can be affected by externals. The goal is to be completely internally validated, not externally validated. The "inner voice" can be...

Can relate. One reason cold approaches are hard is that they talk less. I cold approached an indian girl (I'm in Sweden) and she was amazed and said I'm changing her perception of swedes (girl, I haven't changed the swedes, you're just experiencing me). The switch to social media/phone is also...

To add, I think this is very contextual. For instance, I suspect some American environments or in general differs from for instance Sweden, or a dance community. The countries are too different. Also, I wouldn't focus too much on that a particular look is wrong, at most Tomassi's advice of...

Regarding looks/appearance, I suspect one can be too "correct". For instance, in the dance community I participate there is this guy that apparently gyms and also tans. In one sense he got "good" looks but he doesn't strike me as someone women would find attractive, even though he on paper got...

Gym approach: Two girls working out, I approached. The first girl showed resistance so I talked more to the other one and the first loosened up as result. Good natural convo, slightly long. I froze when she said “you read me like a book.” I got perplexed and didn’t know what to say. In day game...

The tricky part here is that one typically doesn't have the knowledge of whether it one's own fault or not. If one had, one wouldn't have made any possible mistake.

I like this. For me it's tricky to build this "power centra" of mine. My current project. For me it's central in typical male sexuality, like it or not. Male power, I guess being proud of oneself. It involves some kind of appreciation/comprehension of oneself, that dominates. I agree it's a...

It's catastrophic thoughts, stuff like "she'll reject me/get mad/it'll never work". Been conditioned this way by poor game, for various reasons. In approaching, a challenge is to be equipped in the manner that losses, which are inevitable, doesn't condition you (negatively). There's always...

Pancake Mouse coined the term SMD for a certain type of girls, and there’s plenty of them in my city. Smart, Mature, Difficult (SMD). “Cultivated” academics and career women, in short. Say hi to them and they pretty much on all levels say “Talking to me, punk?” Any thoughts on how to thaw...

I don't understand you @corrector. Am I a sub5 and what is it? So I should counsel @characternote?

So, during the summer I did probably a couple of hundred day game approaches and it practically didn’t lead to anything. All day game approaches these days are also fruitless for me, no interest in talking no matter what. I social dance some, there’s no interest in dating, girls there go for...

I got SMV and approaches/day game in order, it just leads to nothing. Ghosting, no dates. Maybe I'm too short, 170 cm, but that isn't disastrous. It feels like despite SMV that I don't manage to ignite interest/attraction. Some are more naturals in that area, the girl bursting up in laughter...

I need to tighten up my communication with women, my texting is much better than face to face. One challenge I have here is that I practice dance as well as other creative fields with them which sets very friendly, cooperative frames over it all. Therefore I say to myself: Don’t impress Don’t...

I bench 5x5@62.5 kg (so not very much) but fail at the end. I've had it like this for a longer time but don't really advance. Any ideas for making my muscles grow?