Search results

What's (examples of) compliance tests? Whether the girl "cooperates" such as agreeing on a date? Someone wrote that breaking rapport is attractive and I kind of see that, banter is an example of that kind of "tension". However, compliance seems like the opposite of that, something that easily...

What is considered long distance? Does running 12 km once per week give such negative effects?

Why does it matter that these muscles are the strongest and biggest? I'm interested in looks for which upper body matter most, but perhaps they help burning calories. What is the difference in adaptation, and in what way does it matter?

So people say "And of course, don't skip leg day." I don't get this obsession. I do moderate squats and dead lift 90 kg. But they're exercises I find discomforting, not fun, sometimes painful. They are demanding. I run maybe 12 km a week, I don't got thin thighs. I feel like skipping leg day...

My goals are to gain muscles on upper body while retaining (whose current state I can accept) or reducing fat percentage. I eat vegetables and meat essentially, workout 4-5 days a week, of which one is running (maybe 12 km or so). I think it gives results actually, upper body gains. I do at...

After this semester I’m most likely gonna re-enter finance/IT, perhaps NYC, have been contacted by two head hunters for that city. I’m concerned whether I will survive it. Stress, pressure, risk, responsibility — who the heck wants that? I’d in that sense like a more relaxed and simple life, but...

I have a vague memory of a Swedish article which was something along the lines of “How the academic man feels threatened by the working class man”. Maybe it’s another take on the blue/red pill idea just different terminology, and I’d say it’s along the lines of the blue/white collar discussion...

My top three misses would be: a half-latin miss Country candidate (folded her hand around mine while dancing and gazed, for instance), a stewardess in a cab that could have worked as a glamour model ("When will I see you again?!?!?!" she said), and an Onlyfans girl I know in person (don't get me...

I’ve figured out I have as good self esteem as a black hole. I’ve performed a lot in life (you do the math), so at a first impression this is unnoticeable. The problem it causes is that I project my own views of myself onto girls and don’t think they could possibly like me, get jealous...

I try to care about the size of my new white T-shirts, heh. Either rather well-fit/tight or more casual. In either case it’s a slim fit, I got athletic build. In my world it’s fvck boy on one extreme, and unnoticeable casual on the other. I’m currently leaning towards the former: rather make an...

I have a problem with adopting the arrogance -- I don't find it respectable at all. I look down upon the c0cky arrogant guys, I find them immature and haven't experienced life. Because it's silly, at some point it's gonna bite you from behind. So I don't want to be that kind of guy/man, but I at...

Hell, you're pretty much describing me spot on. The pretty boy who fails at later stages. I actually think that your own self image/look can shape the way you interact. For instance, "beauty" can shape you into conformant or timid behaviour that doesn't sacrifice the "beauty". If you're ugly...

A HB at a club last night more or less approached me and started hammering me about that she wanted a compliment for her shirt. I got alert on this, didn’t consciously identify it as a **** test, but intuitively didn’t pamper her or comply. My experience and literature says complimenting HBs is...

Check out this thread: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/red-pilled-leadership.272955/

Well, I don't know. It's one of those usual comments, if you're on your "purpose"/"mission" they like you; David Deida writes "she doesn't want to be your number one", etc., etc. I've been on my "purpose" most of my life. I've built insane amounts of competence/cultural capital/career/education...

Yeah, I practice transcendental meditation, like @DEEZEDBRAH. Took a course in it in Oslo years ago, cost some, but worth it. Cool people like The Beatles and David Lynch do it. It has some religious bs, my instructor started talking about energy fields in the walls and stuff like that (lulz)...

Good question, OP. The thing is, if you're insecure, you will over qualify yourself, over share, etc. I've had this problem, although it things varies depending on context. Changing "external" behaviour like suggested in above posts can change your internals, yes. It's also about abundance...

Yeah, sure, sometimes guys are a problem. They feel threatened, gonna play the protectionist, etc. I've sometimes winged other guys (though they never knew it), but it of course would be cool if some guy winged me without having met before or prearranged it. I think guys in sets can be...

Given a high flake rate (my case), it's tempting to explain it on business cards, but the rate is high even without. Since the flake rate is high even without business cards, I wonder if this question matters, actually.

I've been suspecting some attachment issues (think Bowlby) from my side, i.e. ambivalent attachment or so. But maybe you're right, maybe it's all normal. On the other hand, some seem more sturdy, like @DEEZEDBRAH's or @darksprezzatura's escapades for instance, on top of my head. It kinda feels...