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Can execute the boldness, need to read in module and calibrate first. One challenge is being bold while not fscking up so the club police throws you out. It's perhaps particularly a concern in Scandinavia. With increasing boldness, increasing risk. I enjoy the night life despite my age, but I...

I agree with the clubbers. Even though I'm 38 I enjoy the night life, the drinks, music, atmosphere, etc. So the clubs are some of the venues I visit, apart from the comparably more nerdy social dance hobbies for instance. @Jesse Pinkman focus a lot on more or less the logistics, and although I...

I don’t want to sound black-pilled but there’s some realities to face here. From Sweden I have the experience that club game consists of: Youngsters being tired/drunk/etc. People nurturing social circles/status Males out-numbering is common Girl groups just want to dance and sing-along A HB is...

Wise words. Threads like these are an unfortunate reality.

I agree. Forward, surpress, control, move on. Hip hop is all right. Common and Tribe Called Quest are a bit soft for this. Xzibit is adequate.

Awesome. I don't do that, but I see your point. That may be why some fap, dopamine kicks as cope for depression. Fantasy is enough for me. Text has same effect, if I read up on rap lyrics for instance. Though I avoid porn (due to it's not real), I think there are two kinds of faps: some...

I got a lot going on in my life, but I fap a lot less and I have a hunger for sex I haven't had before. nofap.com is popular, maybe for a reason.

I’ve noticed I fail IG closes/direct dates on cold approaches because I rush to fast. I think I fail to build report/trust/comfort. Due to approaching relatively much, 4-5 times a day for a long time, and due to the well known low statistics of cold approaching (mine are probably even lower)...

Can confirm completely. Bar/street game. It's as if a script was written. I think it's an evolutionary mechanism, they instinctively realize they've been deselected and try to do something about it. Thanks for the reminder, it's as if one should avoid such sets. One method is to first completely...

I got some reason to complain, but let's face it, a Sparta warrior handles adversity. It's a problem of affect/emotions. An alpha doesn't whine, he's unthreatened by anything. Still, many men have problem with it. I don't act out, I'm in control -- I instead implode. I'm in that sense a...

Approaching is in general risky. That's why so few men dare to, they chicken out, wanks off or swipe. It's the burden of man because of the asymmetry in interaction between the sexes. While man poses a physical threat to women, the woman is a legal and social threat to him. Many men knows this...

Aww, how lovely, A+. I'm not religious, but look at the woman's expression when Will's character says in the beginning "The lord is with us". She questions him: There's undeniably a truth to your relativistic reasoning, but the assumption of an upside does not hold. Try to have so much pain...

It's mental pain. It's weird when this equilibrium forms where there's nothing to express, the pain is just etching in you. Sometimes I can't be bothered by exercising/running it away. There's something pathetic about it, literally attempting to run away from something. Can't be bothered.

Read poetry, fiction, science, watch movies, exercise, express. Don't ***** out.

Tl;dr, but for me life has been painful. The fun thing is that this is largely reserved to villains in movies, like the blind dude in Bladerunner 2049 (“You don’t know what is pain”) and the guy in Casino Royale that weeps blood due to a deranged tear canal. Great club. I’ve had pain, and have...

Sometimes when applying for jobs I have the concern of picking something that suits my identity, at the risk of sounding silly. For instance, HR is an example of not, one serves those that do something of substance. Hence typically women in that role. That’s why I have an inclination for STEM...

That is correct. It leads to similarities of sex, perhaps hormones like oxytocin. It helps me fall asleep for instance. The problem is the costs of fapping.

Check nofap.com's PDFs and reading material.

Good topic. nofap.com is rather desperate and depressing, though there is positivity too. SS can be crazy reading too sometimes, but it's overall a good read. No porn was easy for me (maybe twice in a year, so basically none). I guess the trick is to get to the point where you don't go to it...

I'm currently applying for jobs. What annoys me is the "approach burnout" from it, and it's pretty similar to approaching in game. You find an employer, get an impression and psyche yourself up for writing a good letter, understand the company, and so forth. Afterwards you get some polite bs ;-)