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  1. Konada

    I think I'm reaching the point of learned helplessness

    On the contrary I'm quite happy with my life barring women. I fence, I do latin ballroom, I hangout with my friends weekly to shoot the sh!t. Right now I'm focusing on pulling my grades up in college because I fvcked up the 1st 1 1/2 years playing too hard. I tend to do things alone in school...
  2. Konada

    An other feminist failure which in fact favour man (feminist tinder)

    Been on bumble and girls have absolutely no game. The kind of sh!t that we send would get us ignored immediately. Example: 'Hi'
  3. Konada

    I think I'm reaching the point of learned helplessness

    Been on a dry spell since November. Most of the time I don't even feel like dealing with women nowadays and rather stick to my right hand. The times I thought I have girls interested in me, all of them turned out to be attached. The single ones won't give me the time of the day. Sometimes I feel...
  4. Konada

    First date vday. Good idea?

    As above. Just met a girl yesterday and got her number. Will it put too much uneeded pressure for a first date?
  5. Konada

    Anybody Going to the Roosh Meetup

    Yeah the news reached Singapore as well. Now I have entitled b!tches on my facebook spamming 'say no to rape'.
  6. Konada

    I Have Anger Problems/I Don't Know What To Do

    I suggest a skype chat so you guys can actually tell what's off about Ten rather than judging through a wall of text. Also fvcking low quality trash when you are out there searching for 'high quality' is equivalent to the fat guy who says 'I'll continue eating macdonalds until I get my weight...
  7. Konada

    What is your number one deal breaker when it comes to women?

    1. Chicks always trying to 1 up and guilt trip you. I take it as a lack of vulnerability and lack of social awareness. Lost count of the number of chicks I had to tell to fvck off because of this. My philosophy is that if I have to walk on eggshells around them they're probably not worth the...
  8. Konada

    Maybe...its the way we game

    After being here on awhile and looking at countless threads of posters complaining about the low quality of women we are pulling, I can't help but see that the common denominator is us. Surely we are doing something to attract these low quality b!tches. Things like negging, not calling for 3...
  9. Konada

    how long do you wait until you delete her number?

    I never delete/unmatch unless its she was a total b!tch. I get the vibe that you guys treat 'deleting numbers/blocking' as some kind of cheap tactic to get in the last word. Correct me if I'm wrong
  10. Konada

    Gf going on vacation with an Ex?

    Relegate her to fvckbuddy position. Tell her 'Then perhaps its better we don't get into a relationship with exclusive labels yet.' Start seeing other girls.
  11. Konada

    I went off the deep-end today

    Usually I deal well with flakes but today something snapped inside me. I got flaked on because 'she had to go pick up some guy from the airport.' from Tinder. The thought of her getting fvcked senseless by some jetlagged dude while I am burying myself in books infuriated me. I started blaming...
  12. Konada

    Family members affecting my self worth and confidence

    I'll go against the grain here and say that external validation is something very hard to get over if your life is riddled with past failures that built up over time. I never got over my need for other people's approval until the point I asked my dad this question 'Are you proud of me?' He said...
  13. Konada

    Food for thought...

  14. Konada

    spinning plates makes me sick

    You are who you attract. If you think all women are wh0res, you're gonna be unconciously be looking for women who have wh0rish characteristics. Start setting screening plates, you might have fewer (or possibly none) but at least you'll have a better quality of living.
  15. Konada

    Girl apologizes ignoring my text after matching on Tinder?

    She replied "I'm not free friday, next week?" 100% sure she's ****ing me around expecting me to feed her attention. For experience sake I'll just see how far I can go with this one though I really don't give a fvck how she responds. I replied "Maybe, let me know what day works for you and I'll...
  16. Konada

    Girl apologizes ignoring my text after matching on Tinder?

    Pretty bizarre situation here, let me know how you think are the ways I can play this out. Got this chick's number a few weeks ago via OKC, sent her a message on whatsapp but she never replied. Until today, I didn't even know I swiped onto her after she messaged me on tinder: HB: HI I'M SO...
  17. Konada

    I might be too heartless

    I believe what OP is talking about is sympathy rather than empathy. I may understand what a girl is going through when I reject her but I look at it with more of a 'Okay so that's what she's feeling' (empathy) rather than 'Damn I feel bad for her' (sympathy/condescension). As men, its never...
  18. Konada

    Fear

    I would say fear is a very legitimate emotion and for myself, using the rational mind to overcome it has never been an effective way for me. Simpyl because I think I am trying to play it cool, while inside I am struggling to keep up a fight, and incongruency is a major turn-off to almost...
  19. Konada

    I Have Anger Problems/I Don't Know What To Do

    Ten is a fvcking headcase. Dude needs professional help, not us convincing him that his worldview is warped.
  20. Konada

    The social climate

    Don't know. Maybe asians are exotic in finland?
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