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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    What is you're guys opinions on dating girls younger than you in high school. There is this freshman girl who likes me and she is pretty hot. I'm a junior so it might be weird. The age difference seems a little weird to me. What do you think?
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    Is this wishful thinking?

    She likes you man. Go for it. Make sure to act soon or else she will lose interest. Good luck.
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Not much has happened lately. Break has been pretty boring. I've been feeling sh*tty about myself too and my self confidence is low. I don't know why it's like this but it happens like twice a month. For a week or 2 I feel good about myself and then all of a sudden I feel like sh*t about myself...
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    Is She Shy or Not?

    Gonna be honest here. I doubt she likes you. If she didn't want to hug you and didn't say yes when you asked her out then she probably doesn't like you. Some advice: don't ask if you can speak to her, just go right up and speak to her. Be confident, smile and make eye contact. Also don't ask...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Thanks for the reply NoDanny. You are correct. I need to start talking to more girls and escalating. Not much has been happening lately. I've been pretty bored. I'm trying to find a job to get some extra money to buy a car. Workouts are still going good. I wanna lose a bit more belly fat so...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Been pretty good lately. There's a girl who's in a grade below me that I like. I've seen her staring at me on the bus and in the halls a few times. Her friends also look at me so I think she might have told them that she likes me. Anyway, I'm gonna talk to her next chance I get. I don't know...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Not a great day today. I'm getting kinda tired of school. Most of the people are really annoying and the teachers are *******s. I guess there's no use in complaining about things I can't change though. I need to find a way to keep my confidence high. Some days I feel good about myself and I...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Past couple days have been bad. I'm feeling like girls don't even like me and that I'm not good enough. Even the girls that seem like they like me turn out not to or they're just not what I'm looking for. For example, Erin was showing a lot of interest in me but she seemed a little weird. She...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Pretty average day... Erin is kinda confusing me. Sometimes she seems like she doesn't wanna talk when I try to talk to her but other times she stares at me and smiles. There's this girl at my bus stop who I've noticed stares at me sometimes. I wanna talk to her but she is always with friends...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    I'm gonna update this more often because I've only been updating every few months. Not much has been going on lately. School was cancelled on Friday so I was pretty bored. Couldn't get to the gym either so I went for a late night jog which was fun. Yesterday and today I had good workouts at...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Hey guys, time for some updates. I've been feeling a lot more self confident and happy since my last post. I think it has to do with the results I'm seeing from weightlifting. Anyway, I feel really good about my self and I've stopped all the negative talk I was doing before. Speaking of...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    I've been gone for a while. Been busy. Some updates: Football- great season for me. I won rookie of the year and started at linebacker and fullback. Coach says I will be captain next year and says I have ncaa talent. Grades- doing well so far. Improved a lot since last year. Also made a...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    I haven't been myself lately and I'm not sure why. My self confidence is really low at the moment. I look at a girl that I think is hot but then some part of me thinks why would she want to date me or talk to me and then I chicken out and don't approach. Football is alright. I'm one of the...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Not much to report on the first day back. Football was cancelled due to the field being in bad shape. That really sucked but I just have to wait a little longer. Tomorrow afternoon I finally get to put on the pads again and start cracking heads. I can't wait. I only had 1 class today so I...
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    The Dreaded Oneitis

    I can relate to this in a way. About 4 months ago or so I was rejected by my oneitis. Sure it bothered me for a bit throughout the summer but I didnt waste my time thinking about her because she wasn't worth my time. Instead I spent my time working out and getting ready for football season...
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    Advice if I should move on to this girl

    Danny, man you're a funny dude but you shouldn't flame the OP or just post jokes on the thread without offering useful advice. We all start somewhere and all of us have had experiences like this guy. Now, OP I think you should talk to this girl next time you see her and make a move. Ask for...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Next Tuesday. I can't wait I'm pumped. Speaking of school I am going to set some goals for this year like I did last year. The goals will be in 4 different categories, Girls, Grades, Sports, and Miscellaneous. Right now I am going to post my goals for the month of September and then at the...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Nothing too exciting has happened... Workouts are good as always. Body fat down to 15 percent and I look good. I've been doing a lot of football related workouts and drills lately. I really need to improve on taking opportunities with girls. Went to the mall and got repeated eye contact from...
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    Did I get friendzoned? Or not?

    Ask her out and you get your answer. If she says no, withdraw your attention from her and focus on other girls. Flirt with other girls and ask out other girls. If she says yes then obviously go out with her and have fun. Make sure the date you plan is fun. After the date you can hug her or if it...
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    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    Hey Rex thanks for the advice. I get what you mean by going to target rich locations and the mall is definitely full of girls my age. Do you have any tips on mall cold approach and game? I was thinking of using the opener "hey its not nice to stare you know, I mean I know I'm cute but still". I...
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