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  1. Konada

    Messed up Royally

    Give it a few days for her to cool off then explain it to her. Take it as a litmus test as to whether she is deserving to be a relationship with you. We all fvck up sometimes and if this girl isn't willing to give you the chance, it best be that you move on. Explain to her your situation and...
  2. Konada

    Compliments

    You MUST be in a value giving mindset to have compliments work for you, otherwise it will just come off as you needing something in return. I find that compliments work best when you point out something you like that most people don't acknowledge. I told a girl I found her choice of...
  3. Konada

    K-Close on first dates but no second dates.

    1. Most of the time I'm still initiating kino. They might bump into me or whatever but I'd have to start the escalating anyway. Little initiation on their part but reciprocation is there. 2. Always getting questions like 'How many girls have you been with on Tinder?' 'Do you always move this...
  4. Konada

    K-Close on first dates but no second dates.

    Quantity is no issue if I lower my standards to anything below a 5.5. I've been down that route and honestly it feels like a fvcking waste of time practicing game on girls I'm not even remotely attracted to. That being said, I'm going to steer off OLD, simply because I'm not at the stage in my...
  5. Konada

    K-Close on first dates but no second dates.

    If I were to break down my dating history so far it is as follows: Date #1: Low IL girl, out for a free meal Date #2: Possible low IL, afraid to kiss close Date #3: Went for k-close twice, rejected Date #4: Failed to escalate, unable to confirm interest Date #5: Girl looks different from pics...
  6. Konada

    K-Close on first dates but no second dates.

    Escalating on the third venue. My current game plan has been Coffee --> Bar --> Isolated area after talking a walk
  7. Konada

    K-Close on first dates but no second dates.

    So up till now I still can't get second dates, good thing is I'm kiss closing these girls and still pushing for sex. The previous one gVe me a BJ but then proceeded to tell me 'She doesn't do hookups' while the most recent one went ghost after I made out with her (she said no when I tried...
  8. Konada

    Gaming in Shanghai?

    Anyone has any experience what works? I'd prefer to speak english since my mandarin is terrible. Intending to start my cold approach journey here and use that momentum to overcome my social stigma fear back home.
  9. Konada

    Improve your looks by 3 points quickly 2.0 (add your tips/thoughts

    Creed Aventus. Or Club De Nuit Intense Man, I've gotten numerous compliments from my dates wearing this.
  10. Konada

    Jaded

    I'd say the biggest thing you need to get fixed is your relationship with your mother. Clearly the biggest thing fvcking you up is her lack of support for her OWN SON. Cut ties with her or fix your relationship with her, whether you care to admit or not this ordeal will continue to burn your...
  11. Konada

    Critique where I fvcked up here

    Is this salvageable or should I chalk it up to a loss? Plan A: Wait for her to reach out Plan B: Send a text 'Hey' in 2 weeks time when I get back from overseas
  12. Konada

    Critique where I fvcked up here

    I don't know. I'm just terrible with texting, I posted this exchange because I was very attracted to her (don't know why). My usual exchange goes something like this: On OLD: Me: Hi HB: Hi Me: Hey how's your weekend coming along HB: Blahblah Me: I see. You seem like a pretty cool girl, how's...
  13. Konada

    Sold VIGINITY my ass

    LOL. Reminds me of my most recent date... Gives me a BJ but tells me she wants to save her virginity for a committed relationship. These girls...
  14. Konada

    Critique where I fvcked up here

    Well I took it she was trying to counteroffer when she asked if I was free during the weekdays which unfortunately I am not. I took it as a sign of reciprocation. No excuses for her behavior though, I'm just trying to see where my thought patterns went wrong. Another point is when she hinted...
  15. Konada

    Critique where I fvcked up here

    Got a chick's number from Tinder with a presumption that I was going to set a date when I text her. I have some clue as to where I fvcked up but I will withhold my opinions so I can get more clarity of what I'm doing wrong. Me: Guess who? HB: Michael? Max? Mark? Hmm I'm not sure hahaha Me: It's...
  16. Konada

    Consistently good behavior is Rare.

    My interest is in the bolded phrase. Correct me if I'm wrong but you took 3 months to finally meet her? That definitely goes against the grain if that's the case, what made you discern that this time it was different?
  17. Konada

    Don't Try So Hard

    Great post, my question is, how do you tell this from low interest? Does a girl who rejects your kiss on the first date with minimal kino a sure fire sign or low interest or does it convey something like you mentioned? Girls recently have called me confident, cool on the date but from my...
  18. Konada

    Number One rule to simplify your life as a man when it comes to dating

    Scarcity plays a huge part in why many men are wasting time with uninterested women. Think about it, if one really experiences true abundance and has women who are highly interested in him on a consistent basis, I'd bet he won't even give uninterested women a second though. The caveat comes...
  19. Konada

    How to Handle Flakes

    Girl 1 and 3 move on... Girl 2 is closeable. Go with "You have alot to make up for, NAME. When am I going to get that drink you owe me?" And calling out on a girl's BS is always a nuclear option, however, most of the time people want to live in denial as the truth hurts them. Don't fret, I'd...
  20. Konada

    A review of my dating life so far: Insights appreciated

    @LARaiders85 Looks: I will rate myself as a 5.5-6/10, refer to my pics http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/sometimes-it-just-feels-so-fvcking-hopeless.234841/ Money: My family is well-off so I have no problems with my own finances, currently still in college Status: I'm a lone...
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