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Cognitive distortions keep us feeling bad about ourselves. They are inaccurate thoughts not based in reality. I see a lot of these around SoSuave & a lot of posters leaning into distortions. The most common one being "All women are (insert demonic character trait here)" This is not good & it's...

BE HONEST I've not been honest with myself. Been in a job I hate & not performed at it. Ran around for people. Lots more. Worst bit about it is not being honest with myself. I've not seen the issues & convinced myself its all ok. It isn't. From the bottom I can rebuild. Anyone can. Brutal...

I don’t really drink anymore. Had a couple of nights out this year & didn’t enjoy it. The fact that you’re choosing to post about stopping says to me you should probably drastically cut back & if that fails, stop altogether. I stopped because I can take it too far, no shame in that at all.

Watched it the other night, really enjoyed it. Phoenix is great as the joker & makes the role his own. Would recommend anyone to go & see it!

Sometimes, things are just sh!t. Accepting that goes a long way & is the key to getting things better. You may have failed in some way, or not been good enough, got fired or lost a relationship. There are lessons to be learned in every failure & every failure is an opportunity. The last 2...

It really depends on the person IMO. I've been getting up at 5:00am every day most days for about a month & it's enjoyable.

Women also buy into potential & the whole package, more so than where you are right now. Having a good career & foundation is a huge plus.. be happy with that & where you are headed. Buying a car may impress a women, but if you cannot interest her, then its game over. IMO the best way to...

Misconceptions of SoSuave. I've been away for a minute & truthfully I've been pretty miserable. I've been heavy into therapy & dealing with my own mental issues. That's brought me back to SoSuave & to round 2 of giving the 'DJ principles' a go. The book of Pook & the DJ bible as well as the...

I've been away from the forum for a while. It's given me space to grow & improve my life. I spent FAR too much time on here browsing & being bitter about life, rather than out in the real world living my life! I'm not perfect now, no-one is, but I have learned a few things on the way, which...

I actually disagree with my own advice now. I believe that being in great shape is incredibly important for most guys. The exceptions are guys blessed with really good looks. I think tone is more important than overall size. I've certainly found that to be the case in my own experience...

This is literally the opposite of what is true. You are trying to bend the truth to protect your ego. Your problem is not your looks, according to you. Therefore it must be something that you are doing. Look for opportunities within your failures & chances to learn. Even the best fvck up from...

Having ‘LMS’ is simply a tool to generate attraction. It is your character & defining personality traits that will keep a woman around for the long term, if that’s what you want. As posted by @ImTheDoubleGreatest! above, I’m pretty certain biology debunks your opinion.

All of this boils down to being the best you can be & improving yourself. There is no substitute for self improvement. Authenticity is crucial. You can have the perception of being wealthy, but be broke. For long term success in dating & all areas of life you've gotta be the real deal, you...

Nice one! A link to the rational male site is in the thread...

This is true, the times in life where I have struggled have been where I've let life wear me down & I gave up!

A* Post. By acknowledging the negativity, we fuel it!

Quit moaning, everyone is on their own journey. Do your best, focus on what you can change & come back here with positive feedback.

I see a lot of posts on linkedin shaming men for obtuse approaches. IMO, Linkedin is a professional network and should be treated as such.

I actually don't understand the point your making. To a high value man, LMS is a given. Personality, charisma & game matters far far more, all things being equal. You then use extreme examples (the bum) to debunk arguments, which is absurd. You are grossly overestimating the importance of LMS.

I will pay if she reaches for the bill, if she doesn't, it's 50-50.