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Wrong question. Respect vanishes because of missing competence and wrong decisions. If you don't gain competence and make right decisions, priorities, etc. why should someone suddenly react in a different way (=respect you)? Thus, work on your skills. Your body, mind, habits, you name it. It may...

Why do you consider being a provider beta? I think it has nothing to do with being alpha or beta. Being alpha means that you lead. That you are actively living your life and not being a passive pushover. That you have an abundance mindset. You are not needy (=beta). That you don't b*tch about...

Maybe she lied, because she is a bad person. Or she lied, because she feared your reaction. That you would not be ok with it. And obviously you mean something to her. The question is: Would you have been ok with it if you knew? The goal is not to tolerate sh*t. The goal is to become bullet...

Sounds like if you make it into the 2% league, you have plenty of options. So it's more or less a redistribution. Average men get less, top tier men get more options. I think, that those men, who lose in this game, intensify the problem without probably knowing it. The deal used to be...

What you do (diets) is something on the tactical level. However successful that may have been under ideal circumstances, it isn't really compatible with your identity (social guy). In the end, you either have to a) bring those things together or b) sacrifice one for the other (at least to some...

Mark Manson: The subtle art of not giving a f*ck / Everything is f*cked Bruce Bryans: What women want when they test men ...and for those of you in LTR: Athol Kay: The married man sex life primer Jack Ito: Overcome neediness

Corey (as well as Mark Manson who I mention above) seems to be quite calm and in peace with women and the world in general. Stoic mindset without anger. Exudes tranquility. I think this is quite desireable.

We all grow up with (or without...) certain role models. You can't choose who your parents are and the environment in which you grow up. Those things are, however, crucial for building your mindset, which, in turn, is responsible for most of our actions and subconscious decisions.

For those, who like Corey, I recommend reading books by Mark Mason as well (Models, The subtle art of giving a f*ck, Everything is f*cked). I like their calm and aloof personalities.

I'd say for women posting such pictures on social media is like watching p*rn is for men: A quick and easy road to instant gratification.

Beauty needs a witness... All women like to be seen, but for some it's even more important. May have various reasons that often may not even have to do with their relationship. Some things were implanted early in your childhood and may cause low self esteem. Maybe your problem brother got all...

@fenix2021: You sound very clear in your description. I like how you describe the situation in a fact-based way (which may be due to your personality type...). You may want to read about emotional intelligence as well. It may help you in this relationship (if you both decide to stay married) or...

@TheTigerV1: The question is, do you regret being a good guy? Or are you proud of what you did? Do you think she would have been loyal if you hadn't helped her? You've let emotions get into your live. I don't think it's a strong move to shut down emotionally. That would be based on fear. It's...

English is not my native language, but I think there is a difference between "being kind" and "being nice", isn't it? Like "doing good things" vs. "trying to please others".

In this case, AWALT doesn't apply, because not all women have enough options. Two of my ex girlfriends (long, long ago...) come to my mind. Wall flowers. Unassuming. Had been totally happy with me being out of shape. Because they had been out of shape, too. One of them literally said to me once...

Most of you guys probably have your target group in mind: Hot women with lots of options. I guess that the majority of participants is like 45 years old and not good looking at all. A muscular pimp would surely not see them as an option and, of course, would not commit to them.

Looks, money, status and game. A nice car may reflect your status or that you have money. But you don't get women because of your car. It's the whole package and the aura that you broadcast. A nice car may even backfire like 'What is he trying to compensate with that car".

As PowerQuest already said: Discipline is more important than motivation. The key is to make it a habit. You have to come to a point where skipping a scheduled workout seems unnatural. Like you don't wake up in the morning and ask whether you should go to work or not. You do it, because it's...

Read David Goggins' book Can't hurt me and you'll be glad that you don't have to do his routine. It may help you to use a habit tracker app like Momentum.

And how can you cure this behavior? Sounds like those women are desperately waiting for a savior.