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If you are experienced and don't get attached, that's perhaps possible. But even in this case, you can't heal that woman directly. You rather provide a stable environment in which *she* can heal and repair herself. In my personal case, I definitely wasn't able to provide that. I underestimated...

Like you have to die young and tragically in order to become a legend. But you don't benefit from that, because you are, well, dead.

It seems as if the element of separation/lopsidedness/obstacle is almost a prerequisite to achieve this high level of attraction!? e.g. would your mom and that dude be as happy as you describe if there hadn't been those racial obstacles?

Your're welcome. I can totally understand how you feel. Not a single year with that woman was bad, but on the other hand, it didn't lead anywhere. And it was totally obvious. I'd call it relationship procrastination. But it's also part of the story that the relationship with the woman that I...

In my 20s I had such a LTR for a couple of years. I stayed, because it was ...nice. Nothing more, nothing less. Great chemistry, same circle of friends. I had a good life. But it was totally clear to me that I would never marry her. Eventually, I left her when I met a woman that I fell in love...

Stay or leave. Don‘t cheat.

Most probably, she is lying or will be lying about more important things, yes. That may have two reasons: a) She doesn't trust you and/or doesn't feel safe to tell you the truth. Are you judging a lot? Do you accept other opinions? You should create an environment where she can feel safe to tell...

It's nice to read, but if you aren't familiar with his concepts or RP in general, I'd recommend starting with his first Rational Male book.

I recommend Overcome neediness and get the love you want by Jack Ito. Great book.

Or she doesn't want to appear as a sl*t to you whereas she doesn't care if the appear so to that other guy.

This was a reply to my question: "How is this working mathematically assuming the world's population is 50% male and 50% female?" And I still don't get it. I mean, in each s*x encounter, there is 1 male participant and 1 female participant. (For the sake of simplicity, I'm ignoring threesomes...

How is this working mathematically assuming the world's population is 50% male and 50% female?

I think it's a big difference if you are talking about famous persons or the ones that women know in person. Famous persons are mysterious by default and you can project whatever you want into them. Or they find some actor sexy because of a role he played. Real persons don't play roles and you...

Reading. More than 120 books in the last 4 years: Psychology, relationships, red pill, and lots of other topics. Including topics I never thought I‘d be reading about.

Congratulations! Life may appear hard at the moment, but you are on the right path!

I guess this is easier said than done. How should he do this?

The Naked Gun

Did nofap have any effect on the duration of your actual s*x dates? I could imagine that one doesn't last that long if you practice semen retention for such a long time!?

Those kids/parents surely are bad examples. But having kids changes your life completely. If you want your life like you have before you got kids, you will be disappointed. A lot. It will be frustrating. I have 4 kids between 5 and 11. I love them more than anything in this world. But I surely...

My wife's body count is far higher than mine. That always was and still is a problem for me. If it's roughly the same or if your body count is higher, what's the problem?