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    How does one trust again?

    Certainly possible, but when each said it, I wasn't asking or looking for it. I never returned the saying back to them, as I hadn't gotten to feel like that to them 100%. I wasn't sure yet I guess. Hardly. You are taking one situation out of proportion. To dig deeper in that one instance. We...
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    How does one trust again?

    This isn't Scarface.
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    How does one trust again?

    I try to go by actions not words on the last three women I've dated. The first one who said, I'd never leave you, and I trusted dearly was my ex-wife. She was distant and we just weren't getting along at all. She'd say one thing to me, and something else completely to others. She then struck me...
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    How does one trust again?

    Been through a variety of short and long term relationships. You'd be amazed how many times, I've heard I think I am falling for you. Or, I think you are the one. Or, I've finally found you. Ohh, my favorite is I'll always be with you/behind you 100%. Then, they do something really bad or cut...
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    How to get around with chronic pain and relationships and dating?

    Sorry for the last few days. It's been raining none-stop for days here. The barometric pressure is so high I had to stay in an ER to break the migraine. My BP was climbing due to the pressure, so they knocked me out. Summer is the worst for me. Fall - mid Spring is usually okay to fine. I do...
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    How to get around with chronic pain and relationships and dating?

    Go f*ck yourself. When you get slammed into by a truck, then you tell me how you feel.
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    How to get around with chronic pain and relationships and dating?

    Doesn't work. You really are nuts. Unless you've experienced ongoing migraines lasting days where you are in complete hell, can't see and need to go to the ER to abort, you have no idea. Just migraines... Wow. Ever been stabbed before? Well, imagine continous stabbing pains through your head...
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    How to get around with chronic pain and relationships and dating?

    Need some advice here. I've worked on a lot to better myself. Brought my BMI from 28 to 22 and I am in shape. I exercise as best as I can and have built lean muscle. I cook clean meals and I run a successful business. But there are a few things holding me back. Unfortunately, to my luck, a...
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    First date recap and advice moving forward

    She came over, some last minute resistance, but then she said let's go to your room. The first round, we had sex for about 3 hours, made some dinner, went to sleep, then I woke her up in the middle of the night to have sex a couple more times again. Lastly, we had sex a few times in the morning...
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    First date recap and advice moving forward

    We're on for Saturday. I said we'd cook a meal and watch some movies. Any one have some good movie suggestions?
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    First date recap and advice moving forward

    We did touch on a few serious topics, but I made them positive and in a fun way. She was all over me at the bar. We'll see what happens.
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    First date recap and advice moving forward

    Like I said, I swear after we were heavily making out near her car (my hands were in her pants (she was actually moaning) I said we should prob. get into her car, I thought she laughed and said goodnight so I walked away. If she didn't call me and said she was confused as to what happened, I...
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    First date recap and advice moving forward

    Perhaps, but we all make mistakes in judgement. What should I do about it moving forward?
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    First date recap and advice moving forward

    Yea, not sure how she's in the driving seat or you got that impression, but okay. Several girls have kissed me on the first date in the middle of the date out of no where. After 6 bourbons, I was a bit tipsy lol. I prob. should had walked over to my car and drove her to her car, but I wasn't...
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    First date recap and advice moving forward

    Met this girl on Match and we seemed to hit it off on the phone so we setup a date to meetup. We met up last night and the chemistry was pretty high. After the first 30 minutes or so she leaned over and kissed me in the middle of the bar. We were touching and holding, but lost track of time. For...
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    Bumble profile and pics

    I just d/l'd Bumble. Anyone have some tips on how to use? What's a good profile description template to use? How about pics? What works best? First time user of Bumble, so not sure how to ace it or at least give it a fighting chance. I'm also a bit in the country, but only about 30 mins from a...
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    Some how I messed up two dates

    I understand I usually do that after we have sex. I've watched several videos on Youtube, the majority say you should keep the dates cheap, but cover the bill for the first few dates. I am just trying to follow on the information out there. It's was 30 bucks with a tip the second date, the first...
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    Some how I messed up two dates

    She didn't say I was making too much sexual innuendos. She said must you make everything into a sexual innuendo? All I said prior to that again, hey the temp is at your favorite setting, 69. I thought it was funny. I didn't set it up for that, the car just adjusted to that climate control...
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    Some how I messed up two dates

    I always read on this site for the guy to pay for the date. Always. So that is what I did. She also offered on the first date too. I guess that’s the feminist thing that I didn’t notice.
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    Some how I messed up two dates

    She said to me why do I have to make things so sexual after I said something about the SUV temp was set at 69. She actually had a joke about 69 last week, so she asked what the temp was, I said it’s at your favorite number, 69. She told me about the piercings prior to that. However, her walls...
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