I appreciate what @stringpuller has to say.
She is quite sexually really active. Wants to have intercourse 2wice a day etc. HEr sexual curiosity is probably the culprit as well as my insecurity.
I cant be the prize if im worried about her leaving me. I cant ACT as though im the prize either...
Spaz you what you say correct however I have realised that my attitude towards my wife has changed her.
Training her is what im doing it seems.
More investment in myself as well as giving her time has made for a good result.
I realised i was too controlling previously. Ive took the foot...
Basically what @ImTheDoubleGreatest! said.
Ive had a mantra that I keep reciting when I get the feeling of insecurity in my stomach 'I am the prize'
I have to remind myself of it as atm i dont have the value i SHOULD have. I am working on myself though. I have started to so my own thing...
A good and healthy relationship keeps a man sane. It also keeps the structure of a family strong. Without one you wont have a strong society built on family standards.
Women are very important you are just seeing it from one side.
Women can not love you for you, thats true. They love your...
I made this thread a few days ago. Lo and behold I am now being pressured by my family to apologies to my wife.
Things got out of hand. I understand I was wrong and I overreacted but I can't be apologising. I've made it clear that I should not have done what I did. That it was an overreaction...
I know i am an observant individual. O pick up on body language very well. Ive always been told this and many times when Im walking im just really watching people and their reactions and I tend to always like to make a judgment on what they are feeling etc. I tend to be right. If im sitting with...
I wont say she does it in my face but i can see in my peripheral view. Im aware of it so its always there. Anytime a dude is there i judge her reaction etc.
Oggles. Thats what she does. Ive noticed it with nearly every guy. At first i thought it was attraction now i thin kits purely validation because you cant be doing that with every guy surely. It seems to me she needs men to watch her. Please note she isnt highly attractive.
Whats interesting is...
That sounds crazy man. Just so alarming how women operate.
I can relate to your story but the other way round. I remeber how my father was a complete alpha. Did what he wanted without being apologetic. My mother was always in line. ever spoke out of turn and was 100 percent submissive...
Ive made an observation and please correct me if im wrong as I dont think my theory is 100%.
Anytime you have made a mistake or not, as a guy you should NEVER apologies.
What ive noticed is that many men cheat and a lot of the times when the girl finds out she goes berzerk. This follows up...
Forget work and your job. I dont know why posters on here think thats the one reason why you shouldnt progress any further. be a man and understand that she is married. That is the one reason that should be enough for you to not let this escalate.
You have a woman to tend to and a family to...
I'm not imagining it as it's happened far too many times. The thing is she has always been covert with it it's just I pick up on this stuff quick. The 1st time she did I whacked her in public. Yes i know it was the wrong thing but i thought by humiliating her itll stop it.
It did make her stop...
I cant just drop her now as it's too early after the wedding. It's too political for me to do it just now. Therefore I have started to take steps to look for a 2nd wife. Its quite acceptable in my culture to be married twice. So if I find someone in the meantime I'll go ahead with it.
I can say with confidence that I am the better looking half. By some margin.
However, I have let my self go recently as well as haven't really looked after the wardrobe as such.
Thanks for your input guys it's been very helpful.
I think from all the comments and posts on this thread the best one that's made me think the most is what you mentioned and what Spaz had to say.
I am the prize. Not her. I am acting like SHE is the prize. The moment that starts to happen...
Yes! Yes! Yes! Polygamy is the way forward. Atleast for me anyway.
It's the ultimate checkmate for a woman.
Acording to this saying anyway:
Have one and shell fight you but have 2 and they'll FOR you.
Polygamy gives you open options and high value. One acts up just go to the other...
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