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    Had our first fight

    At first I could see your point, but then again, I was being treated like crap from nearly the very beginning. My own sense of pride was clouding the issue; I didn't want to give up in a situation that was getting progressively worse. "Any girl could be an opportunity for sex down the road."...
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    Girl wants to get her lip pierced...

    No matter how cool a piercing might look in the mirror for her, 90% of the population won't be impressed. Remember that your partner is a reflection of you and your standards.
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    Had our first fight

    Just got off the phone and was nice. I did some small chat, like, "Yeah, just got back and watched a movie. Constantine." "Oh yeah, I liked that movie." "Yeah, it was pretty good." "Ya know....this relationship thing isn't working out. Maybe we should just be friends?" She agreed and said...
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    Had our first fight

    I know. I thought going caveman would get her to relent a second time. Sadly, it did the opposite. The first time I cavemanned her, I managed to disfuse her pitiful "No, don't" and finger her hard for a minute -- while she was pushing herself into it. This was the first time that she was angry...
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    Had our first fight

    I sort of did what Bible Belt suggested. Maybe it was dumb, but I felt it was a good idea: I told her that I needed to speak to her in person, she tried phoning me, and then I didn't answer. Then she left me a message on FB saying that she phoned and "no answer..."
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    Had our first fight

    Yeah, I'm already talking to a different girl that is showing high interest without the B.S. from my gf. Thanks guys for helping me keep my cool and the extra help. :) ~~~ A few of the reasons why deep down I knew that she was messed up or a *****: - She recently said, "I don't want to fall...
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    Had our first fight

    The next time I see her, I think a LJBF is in order. Something like: (pick up my movie from her and then the one I lent to her friend) "I'm displeased with how this relationship is going and think we should just be friends." *walk away* OR I could even do the badass, evil womenish way and...
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    Had our first fight

    She phoned me about ten minutes ago and explained how her mouth hurt and she could barely eat. Both of our voices were calm but mine was casual, happy and relaxed. She said that she was tired and had "so much work to do" and that "we should probably not hangout Friday night". I don't remember...
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    Had our first fight

    Thanks guys. I know this stuff but once you start to slip you fall hard. I know exactly when I slipped (not ****ing her when we were both naked) and that caused the 'I need space to do my hw' and then the lack of tonguing after that up until yesterday. So I've ignored her and had NC since then...
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    Had our first fight

    So if she phones me do I just say I need some space and/or time to do my university work? This is my first relationship. Thanks for the help.
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    Had our first fight

    If you look at my previous thread, my girl asked for space last Monday and then was super-happy to see me on the Friday and we cuddled. Just basic kissing, no sexy tonguing or humping like before. Last night I took her out for a nice dinner and it was great. We got back and her excuse for not...
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    Does she really need space?

    Thanks guys, here's the follow-up:
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    Does she really need space?

    Thanks horaholic, I followed your advice. I phoned her up around 2~2:30AM and asked her "What is up with that message that you sent me? It sounded weird." She said that she was tired and didn't feel like typing. She explained her whole day to me, but she should be free after her class to...
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    Does she really need space?

    WTF is with this? "<girl> sent you a message. Subject: Not at Home "I will not be at home on Friday morning so don't stop by. <girl>""
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    Does she really need space?

    I have met her university friends, her aunt and uncle, and most recently, I met her mom and brother last weekend with my parents. She's 23 and also a student. She already has a degree and is going into social work after her current final term is done. (So she would have two degrees.) She is...
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    Does she really need space?

    The other night, my girl walked in after a shower and I fingered her so well that it was obvious that she got her rocks off. She said at the time I should bring lubricant for the next time and, in a husky voice, notice how she is so incredibly tight because she doesn't have sex very often. Fast...
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    Girl sees the future without me?

    When I meant "together", I meant dating for most of that time. She seems to be going very slowly, and in a text message from the other day, she said she's "not ready" for sex. So go for the gold or walk away? Got'cha.
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    Girl sees the future without me?

    So we've been "together" for almost three months now. I've seen her about 12 times or so. After all of this talk, now she wants my parents to meet her mom on Sunday here at home. She just turned 23, I'm almost 26. I've kinoed her breasts before the holidays and started the dirty talk, but she...
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    Girl sees the future without me?

    That's what I figured. The whole 2011, 2013, 2014 bit was brought upon by her friends, so it's probably very grey. I've been escalating physically (got her down to the panties) and started the dirty talk, which seems to have driven her IL sky-high. I haven't seen her in about two weeks and she's...
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    Girl sees the future without me?

    So I've been with this girl for about 2 1/2 months now and she started to talk about the future. She said she "wanted to be nice" and warn me that she was probably going to take a job in her hometown --- "so you don't fall in love with me". Then she went on and talked about how she was going...
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