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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 18 Sorry everyone I missed posting on Friday! 1 approach. The campus was pretty empty so it was harder to find hot girls. Approach 1: 6.5/10. I was pretty exhausted because I literally walked for an hour before seeing her. A lot of me walking around was overcoming approach anxiety. I...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 17 3 approaches. Approach 1: 8.5/10. Not my best approach because I was nervous. I went up and did my approach, and she said she had a boyfriend. This approach was delivered better than some of my approaches earlier in the week though. Approach 2: 7.5/10. This was fun. She was sitting down...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 17 4 approaches! I went hard to get over my loser mindset Approach 1: 6.5/10. She was sitting down. My approach was decent; I should have done more push and pull. I got her number so it went ok I guess, but she wasn’t that hot, so I’m not too excited about seeing her again. I’m texting her...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 16 Mindset was still off, but I got 2 approaches Approach 1: 6.5/10. She was sitting down, it was a pretty easy approach. My opener was not as tight as it usually is. I talked a bit too much about what she was doing instead of going into rapport questions. She wasn't my type of girl though...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 15 Not a great day Approach 1: 6/10. I was pretty nervous, not gonna lie. I walked around for like 45 minutes looking for the "perfect" approach(which doesn't exist, I was being a *****). My opener was good, but I feel like I wasn't great at building rapport. Her personality was pretty dry...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 14 0 approaches. The campus was mostly empty(it was Friday). I walked around for 30 minutes and wasn't feeling great, so I didn't approach. I had a few opportunities though. I need to work on that - basically approaching when I don't feel like it. Met with long time FWB in the night :)...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Also, a thing I learned today, want to save it: When you're done with your work or your in a transition period between work, the urge is to check Instagram or email. Avoid that and just stare off into space and think about what you have to do. This gets you focused on your actions and keeps you...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 13 What a day!! Keep reading... Approach 1: 6/10. From afar she looked hot, but was actually pretty trash close up. Nice body though. Not my best approach because I was caught off guard from that. I didn't hook her properly by vibing and said my opener a bit too quickly. She was impressed...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 12 1 approach today. Wanted to do more, but had some anxiety Approach 1: 7/10. Prior to this, I was walking around for 45 minutes trying to get a good approach and dealing with my approach anxiety. She was sitting down on a bench alone(easiest approach ever), so I went over and said hi. My...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 11 3 approaches! Great day Approach 1: 8/10. I'm really happy about this one. From afar, she did not look that hot. I was walking by and she was sitting down. As I was passing, she made eye contact with me twice. I walked past her, and thought to myself "She isn't that hot, but gave me heavy...
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    Calling out randomness when approaching college girls?

    Disagree with this. Value disparity problem.
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    Calling out randomness when approaching college girls?

    When I say college girls, I mean 18-22 I am a senior at my university and, for a lot my dates, I've been told that I am the first guy who ever approached them out on campus. I feel like sometimes this works as a detriment to me because it's so far outside the expected behavior of people my age...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 10 2 approaches Approach 1: 8/10. She was sitting down, and I went up to her and said my thing. She seemed a bit caught off guard(she was a freshman). We talked about majors, where she was from, and then I got her number. I think I probably could have teased a bit more. Also, I shook her...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Great post. I agree completely with everything you said; you summed it up perfectly. Game is honestly a **** ton of fun. I don't just do it for the girls, I do it to improve myself, remove all my anxiety and fears, and become the best version of myself. And I hope to inspire everyone who reads...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Complimenting their skin/hair is similar to complimenting a guy's muscles, at least at my age I've learned in the past 3 months that rejection like that is *USUALLY* a reflection of her, not you. How do you know if it isn't you? Simple - you are getting a number one out of every 3-5 approaches...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 9 1 approach, the campus was empty but that's not a good excuse. Approach 1: 8/10. She was walking in the opposite direction. I did not open this one with intent. She said she had a boyfriend immediately. She stayed and talked to me, and we built pretty good rapport. The campus was mostly...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 8 2 approaches, 1 date that was scheduled but cancelled Approach 1: 8/10. This one was a blowout lol... Idk if it was me, or just a ****ty girl. Pretty sure the latter. I was sitting on a bench, she was walking by. After she passed me, I got up and hustle walked to her, said my opener, and...
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    Looking for an approach buddy virtually

    Hey community, The title says it all. I am looking for someone to do approaches with over phone call. I know it'll be very beneficial for both of us because we can critique each other, encourage each other, and give feedback instantaneously. In the Talent Code by Daniel Coyle, he says one of...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    You're absolutely right. In the past I have put way too much weight on girls that if I didn't approach, it would ruin my day. Now, as you said, I'm working on getting past that. I will admit though, it's hard sometimes. I think one reason why it's so hard is there's so toxicity surrounding...
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    Suave1's Approach/Dating Journal

    Day 7 Didn't do approaches but had a date. Date 1: 7.5/10. She confirmed the date the day before, and said she was excited about it. I showed up, then she texts me that she's running 20 mins late because she has homework. I say(not losing frame) "what homework", she responds 20 minutes later. At...
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