Search results

I get that you're in the process of building a website, I just meant for the time being it might be a good idea to put all your posts on a blog until that's ready. It'll keep it all in order and be presentable until you can design something better.

Why not start a blog? That's what Rollo did...

I remember hearing the exact same thing elsewhere actually: About as men we always listen with the idea of solving a problem, when all women want is someone to listen. It's tough because you have to fight your natural inclination to 'fix things'. Takes some getting used to, ha.

I completely agree with you on this. In fact what it requires is for guys to confront the issue by trying to raise their kids with a healthy respect for men/masculinity, while being a good role model. Marriage is obviously a good environment for this, but only if you can work with a woman that...

I could talk on this subject for hours. I was reading a book a while ago about this very problem. The thing is: Even if feminists had a point, and there was an oppressive patriarchy that restricted them, what they fail to realise is it's not the modern generation. They don't realise that the...

Listen, I'm not disputing that money isn't going to get you girls by itself. The point I'm making is that with all other things being equal if a woman has a choice between person A with a bank balance of zero, and person A with a bank balance of $10 million, she's probably going to go with the...

It's basic science. http://sciencing.com/constant-scientific-method-8655782.html As I said in my original post, you need to keep all other variables constant ie. take the same person and then vary his wealth. You can't vary all the attributes and try to measure the change in one ie. give one...

If you can't see the point I'm making then any further discussion is pointless

Who here is saying it's all about money? My point is: You cannot determine the value of something without keeping all other factors constant.

Sigh. Why do people keep doing this? Stop comparing apples and oranges. You don't determine the value of wealth by comparing a 'homeless guy with razor sharp game' with a 'dopey CEO', you compare the 'homeless guy with razor sharp game' with that exact same person but now with money. Which will...

Well please share your experiences, I look forward to reading it :cool:

Are you still with your wife then?

I agree. I accept that at some point, you may find you have to break it off. But I don't believe in just dropping someone you care about, just because they're going through a rough patch - that's not what relationships are about imo.

I find threads like this funny: I've seen guys on these boards before complaining about how women left them when they were struggling. How can guys be angry about this, when the same advice is being given by guys here?

That doesn't surprise me in any way. When you think about it, as a young man you fantasise about how married life could be, but as you age you see the real world ie. you see how your friends and family's marriages look.. and suddenly it doesn't seem all that it's cracked up to be. Factor in...

The irony.. ;)

One thing I will say is never let these soft rejections phase you - it needs to roll off you like water off a duck's back. The second a woman can sense your insecurity, you're done for. Carry on like nothing happened and keep working for her. Just to clarify: Every time I go out on a date with...

This has been discussed to death on these boards already: It's never about one attribute You have to grow in all areas. People need to get this idea out of their heads that it's either/or.

I was thinking about this, as in what I wanted in terms of an 'ideal'. I came to the conclusion that marriage is broken. But I still want what marriage encompasses ie. going through life together with someone. One thing I realised is that (as OP mentioned) a lot of people seem to think that...

Good thread. I think this attitude is core to being a DJ